MonkeyAKT's Breakup Story in Bournemouth - YouBrokeUpHow.com (uBUH)

MonkeyAKT

March 26, 2014 @ (Bournemouth )

Tags: Comments, soloutions, Get back together, Don't

Me and my ex dated for a year and a half (well almost...). I don't know if I need to move on or not, it doesn't feel right in my heart to. Here's some background information:
We were best friends all the way through secondary school, the first week of year 11 we got together. We then spent the next year and a half together, which was the best time of my life, I felt feelings towards him that I never felt for any one before, he was my soul mate and I couldn't imagine my life without him. Then one week before our 18 month anniversary he ended it, saying he needed more space, which I agreed I felt we needed too, not that I wanted to break up. The next few weeks were hell, I couldn't get my head around what had happened and why. We talked for a few days after the break up, going through everything, and then didn't take for almost a week, which was hard considering I talked to this boy almost every day for 5 years of my life. It is now three weeks on and I still miss him like crazy, we still text, and he claims we are still 'best friends', it just doesn't seem right, I know we are not supposed to just be best friends, we are supposed to be more, and everyone thinks that. He is giving me mixed signals on how he feels, even though he claimed after 4 days he had 'moved on'. The worst part is, I still think about him every day and love every moment we are speaking, however, we work together in the school holidays, which means after breaking up and not seeing him for a month, we have to work together next week for two weeks (Easter), and I don't know what's going to happen. I know I can't move on because its not right, so how do I make him realise its not over?

Comment on this breakup

Nicole

June 20, 2014

Don't beat yourself up for thinking about him. It's natural. I'm going through a similar situation but luckily u don't see him and am not likely to see him around anyway. If it's meant to be it will happen and if he truly cares about you like the way you obviously do, he will definitely come around. Look at your current situation in a positive manner. Time heals eve wound, as corny as that sounds lol. What I've learned is that feeling sad about someone who truly made you happy is normal and it's okay to miss that. It just sucks that you have to see him. Good luck!

SprMnda

April 25, 2014

Walk away. Don't talk to him at all. Either you'll realize you don't need him or he'll realize he does need you. Imagine your bond as a rubber band. If you stay still, and the bond is strong it will stretch and stretch from him getting further away until he gets too far a realizes he does care for you and comes snapping back. Or... you'll realize you deserve someone who is honest and frank with you. A healthy good relationship only thrives in honesty, and mixed signals don't apply. Honestly, and this it's from someone who had something very similar happen when I was in high school, I think he just is keeping you close as a back up, and because he enjoys having someone close who cares about him and doesn't want to lose that. he probably still cares about you, but if its not in the right way, then you both need space to heal and figure out who you are without each other.

nonameshallbeannounced

April 19, 2014

hey, keep your head up. I am going through the exact situation. but its already been almost a year since weve broken up. i too am having a hard time to let go. and heal especially. i know how it feels dont worry. there are others out there feelings the exact same way. just know you arent alone. God Bless

stevo

March 27, 2014

Whenever a person says he needs more space-That means it is all over-Time to move on-You will survive..Don't let your emotions get the better of you as he is not worth it ..

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