You Broke Up How?

Steffi

February 06, 2010 @ (Indonesia)

Tags: dumped

R and I met in college. He was two years younger than me. At first I thought he was a little too immature for my taste, but I decided to give him a try.
We dated for the past six months. He knew I was possessive and jealous, and he SAID he understood. He knew I was insecure. He SAID he understood. He never once complained. He never once told me anything about what he didn't like about me. I've always told him to open up to me, to tell me anything that was bothering him. But everytime I tried to open the lines of communication, he either joked about it or said everything's fine.
I was very happy with him. He truly loved me, and he taught he how to love. I was a little afraid of love, but he took my hand and together we took that leap of faith. I loved him. I loved him with all my heart.
A few weeks ago, things started to go downhill. WAY downhill. We started fighting a lot. And he didn't have the patience that he used to have with me anymore. We had this huge fight, and ever since then things were never the same again. After that fight, everytime I looked at him, I saw the emptiness in his eyes. He started distancing himself from me. When we went on dates, there were more awkward silences. I tried to pretend like nothing happened, but how long can I continue pretending?
Finally, I told him to make a decision. Either make an effort, or call it quits. He decided to take the easy way out. He dumped me. He said he didn't have any feelings for me anymore, and that he wasn't happy with me anymore.
I begged him to take me back. I begged him to give me more time. He refused.
How could anyone who LOVED me as much as he did suddenly lose all feelings for me in a mere matter of weeks? When I told my friends about the breakup, nobody believed it. Everybody said, 'That's impossible! He's so in love with you!'
But I guess his love was ephemeral. If he truly loved me, wouldn't he have tried to save the relationship?
In the beginning, when I was having doubts with the relationship, he always tried to convince me that love will conquer all. I guess that was all BS.

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Slayer236

January 30, 2010 @ (Sixburgh)

Tags: oops

I walked in on my girl with another girl. I thought it was awesome. That's why we broke up.

A

July 28, 2016 @ (Tx)

Tags: Horrible liar

I was talking to this guy who had a gf( never got told till we started talking and flirting). Anyways he then stated to tell me that that he's just waiting for her to break up with him and just wait a while. Well one day he then texted me saying he didn't want to talk for family issues. His gf then found out and told my friend everything that he said and how I was the one telling him to break up with her. So basically he was making me out to be the bad guy when he's the one who texted me forst multiple times before I actually texted him back. So never talk to guys who lie about having a gf cause you'll end up looking like the bad one✊🏼

Olivia

November 15, 2012 @ (world)

Tags: i dont no

okay so ive been dating this boy ramone since october 23rd nd its now november 15 kay yesterday at school it was lunch and i was outside with my friends and he comes outside and says olivia we need to talk. i was like oh shit so we walked away from my friends and he said to me , 'olivia i think we should split up' and like 5 seconds later i just said K pretending that i didnt care wen actually i did and he just walked away like nothing happened. So i turned around and went back to my frriends.. My eyes were all watery and my best friend taylor said r u okay? and i just hugged her and started to cry, nnd im friends with boys to so they were asking me wat happend and making me feel better. Telling me that im beautiful and that they dont want to see me cry and huggging me . That ramone dont deserve me and if he really cared he wouldnt of just walked away like that. So we went inside ate lunch and after everyone was done eating my friend ashton said olivia and i turned around and he said want to go out with me? And i was like awww yes, by the way he was making me feel better after ramone broke up with me, and gosh is he ever sweet. I love him so much.. And wen i got home i went on twitter and he was saying that he only broke up with me cuz ashton was always flirting with me and i flirted back.. Which is true cuuz ramones kinda shy so he barely talked to me , but ashton always talks to me. Anyways my name is oliviapickle13 on twitter so follow mee kbye

TorontoRappers

July 07, 2020 @ (Vanauley walk)

Tags: Vanauley glock

Vanauley Glock is the hottest rapper in the 6.

Anonomous

October 27, 2010 @ (Florida)

Tags: example 3

So I dated this guy for almost 4 years. He was my first really kiss, my first love, my first everything. I never had anything more with him because I was scared. Well, we were dating from the 7th grade to halfway through 9th grade. I waited for him outside a corner near his classroom and he had a weird look on his face. He pulled me aside from my friends and said, It's over. I don't want to be friends. I didn't believe him. I asked my friends and they said that it was true. I cried for a week and he never apologized. Well, I dated my best friend a month later and we dated for a year and a half. We brokeup because he didn't have time for me anymore. We're still friends and we still talk alot.

Mark

November 03, 2009 @ (Johnstown)

Tags: pa

I don't spend a lot of time on facebook, I don't really like it. At lunch today a friend said to me have you seen allison's photos? She was like I don't want to say anything more just go look. Well after seeing her pics, it was a clearcut choice.... time to breakup. I was going to make up a whole breakup story but I didn't want to drag it out. I called her over and said we need to move on. I've never seen such whore pics on facebook before. I might need 2 go get tested

Lauren

November 03, 2013 @ (Denver )

Tags: bad break up

A Few of the Things:

Your beautiful eyes
That were the color of waves;
A few of the things
I will always crave.

Your lightning touch
that thundered through my nerves;
A few of the things
I felt I didn't deserve.

Your adorable laugh
And marvelous grin;
A few of the things
I fell in love with again.

Your short gentle hugs
And your plain little kiss;
A few of the things
I will constantly miss..
~lc

James

January 17, 2014 @ (Australia)

Tags: Bad breakup, Sad, feeling lost and confused

We actually met when I was with my ex at the time a gf of almost 3 years and we were not happy at all and I was going to break up with ex. While out walking my dog I met a really cool chick in whom I had a connection with and shared alot of interests. Anyway over bumping into her on walks over a series of months some things happened and took place that seemed like fate and like were mean't to be together so I took a chance and ended it with my ex for another chance to be happy with a girl that appeared to be my "most ideal". We hung out and had an instant connection, strongest intital connection I've ever had with a girl ever ! Although when were hanging out (not dating yet) she told me a story how she has problems hugging her own parents and with displaying public affection, which waved a red flag in my head but I ignored it. We started dating but we rushed things along way too fast which was bad. We spend a whole week together never happier by the two week mark she had moved in with me and "we" and our dogs were all getting along and it was the best times ever we had plans for the future because everything felt right and mean't to be. In the 2 months I was dating her we were so happy and she was affectionate then 6 days days ago she was so distant no kissing no cuddling no touching, sex virtually no talking at all, almost nothing at all, this went on for about 7 days I couldn't understand it ? I am missing a point here she had troubles with affection in general as I found out. She never displayed affection in public except a few hand holdings under sufference though she was really affectionate behind closed doors. She kept telling me I am not a normal girl and I don't like affection and had excuses for no longer wanting to kiss and cuddle or even spend any time at all together really. Prior to this she was very affectionate for almost the 2months even though she said she has problems with affection. So I ended up making the decision to break up with her yesterday, I still don't understand what happened she was with me almost all the time and had no car so she never cheated also appeared very genuine and sweet, I don't know why she completely shut off and all affection and caring and everything was just suddenly gone. Our breakup was messy she was really cold and sarcastic and I said you owe me an explanation..what happened why were you happy and affectionate for 2 months and now nothing, just shut off and distant ? she said "I dont owe you s@#t ! " and eventually "I just don't have one an explanation an answer I wish I did" just before I broke up with her she posted on facebook I don't know if I'll ever be affectionate like everyone else is.....I should of seen all this coming from spotting the first red flag indicating the sign that she has problems with affection. Right now I kind of feel lost and confused and I will never have the satisfaction of knowing what happened, what changed, I'll never understand it !

Naz

July 28, 2010 @ (TX)

Tags: sucks

sucks when your bofriends best friend shows you a text that he is going to decide to break up with you soon...i called the next few minutes and said it was over :D
it was fun to do the favor for him.