You Broke Up How?

Tee

August 21, 2025 @ (Canada)

Tags: Bad breakup

I was with my ex for 8 years and I had left him abruptly once before. The first time I left him, I started losing attraction for him when I started becoming part of a new social circle. I had a new job. I was making money. I met other pretty girls. And when my boyfriend came around, they weren't impressed. I started stooping to their level. I started seeing what they saw and not what I fell in-love with. I became embarrassed of him. I stopped bringing him around, I started lying to him. And there was a new guy in the group that the girls ultimately convinced me to hook up with. I became a cheater.

I had sex with the guy, instantly I became obsessed with him. I dumped my ex over a quick text.

Looking back I don't know why I was so obsessed. I guess new sex always had a better orgasm. I think I became addicted to that. My ex cried around trying to convince me to stay. But at that point I just wanted him to go away. I treated him bad.

I dated this guy for 6 months. All we ever did was fight, and he became abusive. He beat me up several times. But the sex always fixed everything. I seemed to become addicted to the cycle of makeup sex.

Eventually it came to an end after things got to violent. I went back to my ex.

But I just didn't feel what I once did. I lost respect for him because he waited for me to go back. It just made me look at him like a wimp. A beta . I felt so unattached. Even though I caused all this. And he, he just pretended like nothing happened.

I tried to love him again. But I just felt nothing. I disrespected him, I belittled him, I guess deep down I just wanted him to dump me so I had an excuse to get out again.

Well I ended up getting pregnant and we had a baby. Suddenly things that mattered to me, like other girls opinions of my relationship. No longer mattered, all I cared about was my baby.

But I've or baby turned two. I started going out again. And the same girls started whispering toxic shit in my ears. And I started disrespecting him again. And drinking, n doing cocaine. I fell right back into the same ol' cycle. And when I would go home. I would see him sitting there on the couch. I would just snap on him. It passed me off just seeing him always waiting for me.

I ended up breaking up with him on year 8. I couldn't live the lie anymore. I didn't want him. I did find another guy again. I needed a new guy to pay the bills. I didn't plan on staying with him. My ex tried again to save our relationship. But I did some shit to scare him away for good.

I know I'm the villain in my breakup story

Why was I like this, why am I still like this.

I feel like I never really fit in growing up, and God made me beautiful for the shitty upbringing I had. And that when other girls saw my beauty. I felt like that was a sign that I finally found my place. Even of it meant listening to their toxicity.

I discarded my ex like trash. And he's a great dad to our daughter. I just cannot stop being bitter towards him. I can't stop resenting him. It doesn't make sense because he didn't do anything wrong.

Maybe I just can't stand him becoming successful. Or happy. Maybe I'm not happy.

I dunno but that's my story

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A H

March 24, 2014 @ (Karachi, Pakistan)

Tags: Bad and unfortunate breakup

My girlfriend and I started going out three years ago and fell hard for each other. Even head over heels sound like an understatement. I am a 29 year old guy and I have always been a closed off person but when she and I started going out, she brought out the best in me. She made me feel like the king of the world and that I could achieve anything in this entire universe. Right around the time we started going out my father was diagnosed with throat cancer. It shook my entire existence. To find the guy you always looked up to and the authority figure in your life to be so timid and helpless. I was shaken up, then I lost my job, by profession I am a graphics designer and illustrator. We were extremely frustrated. And we decided to talk to our parents about us because we wanted to get married. A note here that she's from a well-to-do family and I am from a middle class family so the social status and lack of financial backing played a very important role when we tried talking to her parents. You need to understand another thing that in our culture we respect and listen to our parents' wishes because of how much they've done for us. and after talking to them they got furious. They took her cellphone, grounded her and we didn't talk for over a month. I know it sounds childish, but this is how our culture works. But she was resilient woman and she stood by me through all this and so did I. We spent two more years after that. My father passed away last May. And my financial situation kept getting worse and worse. Now I am at a stage where I am literally left with nothing in my account. Don't get me wrong she didn't drain me. But I was so distracted by my father's death and the trouble at her end that I couldn't pick myself up. So, a few months back she got a proposal and her father agreed to it and we discussed that since things are going in a certain way and we can't afford to hurt her parents, so we decided to break it off. I know that she loves me and she knows that I love her. I mean I have faced such problems in my life that it's beyond imagination. But this is worst feeling of all. Because I have never loved anyone or anything this much. But she's now talking to this guy her parents introduced to her and I know it's killing her but she's doing it. I want to salute this woman here and want to tell her that I love you and I will always love you. You were the best thing in my life. But I have these memories that I will take with them where ever I go.
It's funny that two people, who love each other dearly and wholly are pulled apart.

Thebrokish

June 12, 2017 @ (New zealand)

Tags: Bad breakup, cheating, drama

It's been 2 years since I broke up with my then love of my life, we were stupidly in love and I mean this with every iota of my being. We were physical in ways I hadn't been with another and the talking god we talked till morning...this went on and on, I hope it would never end problem was I ran outta interesting things to say I guess we just got comfortable...well I did I hadn't really had that kinda relationship. Well things keep progressing and she changed...now don't get me wrong she could of grown a second head and I'd still love her. But then the accusations started first it was people on the street then it changed to her work mates...after that no one was safe her flat mates my flat mates... it started getting real toxic... it ended with her getting physical with me ie fists on face I've never hit a woman but in that moment I came close we broke that night...part 2 and 3 too come yep we got back together what can I say I loved her.

Truther

May 21, 2016 @ (whatevs )

Tags: truth

When your shitty ass boyfriend breaks up with you, you get so depressed that you don't even remember what big of a jerk he was. And after you move on you realize all the awful thing he has done to you.

Sathvik

November 03, 2025 @ (Bangalore)

Tags: Bad break up

I was in a relationship for 3 years where i enjoyed every moment of my relationship, the time we spent together , the fights for no reason , her cuteness, her madness , her innocence i loved everything abt her from past 5 months our relationship was not going well because i didn't take her out on valentine's day due my health i mean i promised her i would take her out but couldn't i mean i understand tht she was excited abt tht i couldn't hlp it i was in bad shape later to make it up i took her to very fancy restaurant tn she said she needed break from oour relationship she said she need some time for her self and she will come back wn she is ready i thought it was a small disturbance she will come back wn she is ready i have waited for 6 months i mean we were talking but nothing more tn tht i always tried to get back to her she said she needed time so i never forced her to come back bust few days back she calledme said she wanted talk abt something important i thought she ready now i got excited and got ready and went to meet her with few flowers but she said it is not working out lets break up it felt like i don't know how to describe it like someone is squeezing me in high pressure container i tried to convince her but she was not ready to listen so even i agreed to break up i didn't wanted to force the love which i didn't find at tht moment

CaptainMac316

October 01, 2011 @ (USA)

Tags: Sorry, that sucks, That's hilarious

I was dating this girl for almost 5 years. We were high school sweethearts and that continued into college. I get home from work one night and I think it's just a normal night. We are laying in bed watching whatever and she turns to me and says "(Name redacted) we need to talk." My first thought was "Fuck...what did I do now?"
So I ask her "What's up?"
Her response: "I...I found somebody else." I was floored. This was from out of nowhere. Now, as I'm sitting there, I start to think "Where did she find somebody else?" She didn't go to college. She didn't work at the time. She didn't venture out of the house unless she went somewhere with her family. Basically, I was dating a loser. So I asked "Where did you meet this guy?"
She replied, "Online." Ah, that made a lot of damn sense now. So, I ask her "Which site?" I'm thinking like eHarmony or match.com. Her response "I met him in a Harry Potter chat room." My only reaction was to laugh at her. "Are you kidding me?" I asked incredulously. She definitely was not. "What do you talk about on a Harry Potter chatroom? Did he ask you if you wanted to see his wand?" I got no response. Was I said and upset? Yes, but remember, laughter helps out when getting over such things.

Zack

November 30, 2010 @ (home)

Tags: write, spell

Does anyone know how to spell on this website? I can't understand half of you people.

Maddy

December 19, 2010 @ (united states)

Tags: example 3

ok so me and my boyfriend were dating for a year 4 months.we were completely in love with each other for a year..then things were getting weird so we broke up,we then decided that we couldnt live without each other and got back together.we broke up and got back together about 3 times in 4 months.well we had a christmas dance the day after his birthday.things were going pretty good we had our little fights but what relationship doesnt? so the day of his birthday he we probably hungout for an hour.he said that he had things to do like go chritmas shopping and go out to eat with his family....i wasnt invited.oh and christmas was 4 weeks away.seemed a little fishy.so the next day, the morning of our dance, he decided that he didnt want to go with me.i was so confused and ddnt really understand why.but we ended up going.we had a lot of fun at dinner but he was being awkward at the dance...that night my mom had decided that she didnt want me to be with him.so she made us breakup.it was terrible...but we still talked at school (the breakup happened on sunday) on monday he told me that he loved me and that he still wanted to be with me and i told him my feelings were mutual. well on tuesday he was all over this girl and they were holding hands at school all day...i go home to find a facebook message saying that he oesnt want anything to do with me and that he hopes it will work out in the end.i was doing good for two weeks.i was hanging out with another guy and didnt really think about my ex.well i just recently broke down.every song i heard remindedme of him...i read all the notes and messages we sent each other.we were in sooo much love with each other.he screwed me over so bad and i dont know how to get over him.i miss him so much and i still love him but i dont want to.he has been such a jerk to me and he hates me.help! i need advice...please help.

Caroline

May 28, 2017 @ (Oslo)

Tags: Bad break up

I went on a date with a guy that I liked. He was handsome and very nice, to me. But as soon as I got to know the dark side of him, I started to dislike him more. He was nice to me and he was flirting with other girls. And he was a bad boy. I heard that he was selling drugs and other stuff to random people. And when I asked him about it, he said that he used to do stuff like that in the past. But he lied! He still does it. My brother found out that I was together with him and he got mad. Because he didn't like it and he thought I was too young to have a boyfriend! I broke up with the guy, and he got really upset about it. He didn't understand why. And he got very angry at me and I didn't like it. After some weeks I got over him, but he said that he was never going to get over me. And I'm like " yeah, well I am all over you so I don't give a fuck" We are friends now, but in the past few weeks I have been falling for his best friend! And that is not good! I like him a lot! He is a really good guy, better than my ex. And he likes me too. But we can't be together, because my ex would be so jealous and angry! Because his ex girlfriend is together with his best friend?! That's not cool... So I don't know what to do

Timo And The Motherfuckers

November 17, 2025 @ (Gotham City)

Tags: Cousin love, Cousin, Family dating, I dated my cousin, oops, genepool Gem

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