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NAKUL AWASTHI

September 02, 2023 @ (Kanpur)

Tags: Amicable breakup

My spiritual Muslim girlfriend (22f) and my(22m) story

We fell in love with each other in college, after COVID lockdown. When the online classes started, she used to message me for notes and all , as I was good in maths and physics , and we didn't have feelings for each other for a long time . Maybe she had some feelings , so , after 2-3 months when the lockdown was over , we met in college and started to enjoy our college , used to talk about professors and other students. But , one thing I didn't like about her that she always used to wear a hijab in college.

And one day , i asked her about the hijab thing , and she gave me a reason , that was some old school shit , she said suppose u have two toffees, and one wrapped properly and other one is without any wrapper and both toffees fall down on the floor , now u will have which toffee?, I got amazed that how Islam brainwashes such innocent minds , that a girl is objectifying herself as a toffee for a man . There is no space for equality in their culture. So , until now , she was stern on her culture and hijab , but one day , she came to college without hijab and came towards me and asked me "are u happy now?" , I said yeah I am . Slowly , slowly i started developing feelings for her because she used to message daily , whenever I used to be Ill, she used to send me get well soon messages , sent me notes, talked to me daily , i guessed by her behaviour that the thing cooking between us is not normal friendly behaviour .

One day , she asked me " which type of girl do you like ?" , I said that I have not thought about anything yet , and she said okay cool. And all this used to happen , and i also started to like her because I was also new to female attention since I was in boys school. One day she proposed me and I accepted it , both of us came into a relationship. Now , we used to talk but one thing I didn't know was her condition at her home , she was treated very badly in her home by her parents and her brother . Her brother was having a relationship with a Hindu girl ( popularly called love jihad in bjp language ) and that fellow used to check her sister's mobile that is my girlfriend, I mean how he's having the right to check her mobile . And, he used to beat her when she resisted to submit her mobile to him and her parents refused to help her in this time , sometimes we used to be in no contact for 10 -11 days and then she tells me that her brother confiscated her phone .

I felt really bad for her , though her parents loved her and she had the latest iPhone but she had very little freedom in her home, her mother used to forbid her to watch television during Muharram and Ramadan . And she used to follow it without being a rebel, I did not like her being suppressed . I tried to open her eyes by telling her about the dark side of Islam and how their prophet consummated marriage with a 9 year old but she was manipulated by her religion that she refused to listen . We were in a relationship for 7 months , but we could meet in college only , our first kiss also happened in college .

We had plans to meet at some other place but her family didn't allow her to go out , in simple terms she was imprisoned . Personally , i didn't know about Islam a lot before this , but during my relationship, I learnt a lot about Islam and how their extreme patriarchal culture tortures women and how the women worship a pedophile like Muhammad . One day , i decided to talk to her and we decided to mutually breakup, because it was not possible for me to break her clutches and free her from her disgusting world.I was in love with her madly , it's been 2 years , I remember her today also , she was the first girl whom I touched and kissed and she was very kind to me.

Tldr: it's a story about my girlfriend (22 f) and me (22m) and how we fell in love and then broke up amicably . If you have some time, then do read it.

       

NAKUL AWASTHI

September 02, 2023 @ (Kanpur)

Tags: Amicable breakup

My spiritual Muslim girlfriend (22f) and my(22m) story

We fell in love with each other in college, after COVID lockdown. When the online classes started, she used to message me for notes and all , as I was good in maths and physics , and we didn't have feelings for each other for a long time . Maybe she had some feelings , so , after 2-3 months when the lockdown was over , we met in college and started to enjoy our college , used to talk about professors and other students. But , one thing I didn't like about her that she always used to wear a hijab in college.

And one day , i asked her about the hijab thing , and she gave me a reason , that was some old school shit , she said suppose u have two toffees, and one wrapped properly and other one is without any wrapper and both toffees fall down on the floor , now u will have which toffee?, I got amazed that how Islam brainwashes such innocent minds , that a girl is objectifying herself as a toffee for a man . There is no space for equality in their culture. So , until now , she was stern on her culture and hijab , but one day , she came to college without hijab and came towards me and asked me "are u happy now?" , I said yeah I am . Slowly , slowly i started developing feelings for her because she used to message daily , whenever I used to be Ill, she used to send me get well soon messages , sent me notes, talked to me daily , i guessed by her behaviour that the thing cooking between us is not normal friendly behaviour .

One day , she asked me " which type of girl do you like ?" , I said that I have not thought about anything yet , and she said okay cool. And all this used to happen , and i also started to like her because I was also new to female attention since I was in boys school. One day she proposed me and I accepted it , both of us came into a relationship. Now , we used to talk but one thing I didn't know was her condition at her home , she was treated very badly in her home by her parents and her brother . Her brother was having a relationship with a Hindu girl ( popularly called love jihad in bjp language ) and that fellow used to check her sister's mobile that is my girlfriend, I mean how he's having the right to check her mobile . And, he used to beat her when she resisted to submit her mobile to him and her parents refused to help her in this time , sometimes we used to be in no contact for 10 -11 days and then she tells me that her brother confiscated her phone .

I felt really bad for her , though her parents loved her and she had the latest iPhone but she had very little freedom in her home, her mother used to forbid her to watch television during Muharram and Ramadan . And she used to follow it without being a rebel, I did not like her being suppressed . I tried to open her eyes by telling her about the dark side of Islam and how their prophet consummated marriage with a 9 year old but she was manipulated by her religion that she refused to listen . We were in a relationship for 7 months , but we could meet in college only , our first kiss also happened in college .

We had plans to meet at some other place but her family didn't allow her to go out , in simple terms she was imprisoned . Personally , i didn't know about Islam a lot before this , but during my relationship, I learnt a lot about Islam and how their extreme patriarchal culture tortures women and how the women worship a pedophile like Muhammad . One day , i decided to talk to her and we decided to mutually breakup, because it was not possible for me to break her clutches and free her from her disgusting world.I was in love with her madly , it's been 2 years , I remember her today also , she was the first girl whom I touched and kissed and she was very kind to me.

Tldr: it's a story about my girlfriend (22 f) and me (22m) and how we fell in love and then broke up amicably . If you have some time, then do read it.

       

Detty

December 09, 2021 @ (West virginia)

Tags: Bad breakup, sad

Okay so I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months 2 days ago. We are both 15. It all started at church camp. My dad is a pastor and he goes to my dad’s friends church who is also a pastor obviously. So we will call my ex Gabe, how it all started was the first night of church camp Gabe’s pastor's son (Elijah) introduced us. I didn’t even give Gabe a second glance. Then that night we just got out of church and it was dark and late and my feet were hurting so bad, so I took off my heels. I was walking out the door and I hadn’t even noticed that he was in front of me. He held the door open for me but I didn’t say thank you, and he said “You’re welcome” and it went from there. He walked me to my dorm room and he said goodnight. I was head over heels for him now. The next day he was with me all day long. Turns out that he has had a crush on me for 2 years!! Now I just found out who this dude is but that was the main thing that got me was the fact that he had his eye on ME out of all the pretty girls at these things. So two days later he asked me out and I obviously said yes. So church camp was over but we still saw each other. He lived 2 hours away and the first time we met up was at Pittsburgh Zoo because that was like the halfway point for both of us. So everyone knew we are dating at this point. Now we would facetime for like 2 hours every night and we would talk about marriage and what age we would get married, you know like things every young couple talks about. Well everything was going good until last month. He tells me EVERYTHING and a lot of those things he shouldn't have told me. But he told me that his youth pastor said that he needed to let go of something . And I was terrified that it was me. But Gabe told me it wasn't and that it was the fact that he looked at pictures. And I was super upset because I felt that I wasn't good enough for him that is why he looked at pictures cause if I was good enough and pretty enough then he wouldn't need those pictures. I didn't break up with him though. So after that things just weren't right I didn't feel the same about him anymore and I couldn't trust him. I still tried to make it work because he loved me so much. But then I found out that he was telling my ex about my body and some of the things he's seen and things we've said and that drew the line for me because I didn't like how he was trying to make my ex boyfriend jealous. Gabe was too clingy from the start and I was too nice to slow it down. Now I broke up with him 2 days ago and I am really missing him and missing talking to him. I know he is hurting like crazy and that makes me just want to check up on him but I know it will make matters worse if I do.

       

Psyoptica

September 30, 2020 @ (Karachi)

Tags: No relationship breakup

I met her about 3 and a half years ago online. We soon became friends. She lived in the same city as me and we met once before she moved to Australia. Our friendship continued to grow. We talked frequently but it never turned into anything romantic until 3 years later.
I started to develop a romantic interest in her and thought about proposing her to marry me. That idea solidified in my mind and I finally picked up the courage to ask her. She didn’t say yes right away but few days later she gave a nod.
We continued to talk now even more frequently than before. She made me laugh, I made her laugh. My life became much more exciting and fun. She always messaged me or called first if for some reason there was a communication gap which never lasted more than a day.
Fast forward 4 months into this, she told me that her family was looking to get her married. It didn’t bother me at first but when she told me that she was gonna meet with the guy who her family set up for her, that got me really worried and mad her for not saying no. She was willing to move forward with the marriage potential and I tried to talk her out of it but it didn’t really work. I ended up losing a lot of self respect in my desperate attempt to to stop her. She gave a hundreds of excuses as to why she didn’t wanna say no and at the same time she didn’t give me a clear answer to what she wanted.
This really hurt me because she was the one who pulled me into it. If she didn’t lead me on from the beginning, I wouldn’t have invested my tome and effort into her.
Our last conversation didn’t really end up on a bad note but I sure did lose a lot of attraction she had for me because of me acting weird and desperate.
I decided to never talk to her again and move on with my life. It’s been 2 days and I’m really struggling with my thoughts and emotions but I know I will move on from this.

       

Karma Is A Bitch

September 13, 2017 @ (Quito)

Tags: bad break up, friendzone, karma

Ok, first, sorry for my broken english.

I met this girl in college, when we were 18, so I did my best to get her to like me, we were friends and I felt weird because I was falling for her really deeply, fast forward 7 years; we graduate from college, during that time she had at least 5 boyfriends (and some sex friends) while I was alwas at her side, we spend a lot of time together in that time, I used to help her with homeworks study and stuff; even I helped Her with her tesis; one day she tell our group of friends she broke up whit her current boyfriend.

So I decided that was my chance, but one day I texted her using sweet names like princes and all that stuff; and she texted me back: "I really like the way you treat me, but my boyfriend got mad, so please dont' treat me that way in texts".

I was devasted, I didn't knew they went back, so I decided It was enough, I remember like It was yesterday. I just stopped talking or texting her, and when she finally decided to ask me what happened (3 weeks later and she only texted me because she needed help with her tesis again) I told her the truth; I told her my feelings for her and I told her I wanted her to be happy and decided to leave.

So of course I was the liar, the fake friend, she said she couln't believe I lied her all these years and even she told me she never used me as I told her (even when all my friends told me "she is using you idiot", litterally with that words) and she did nothing else; we never speak again, I letf and she did nothing about it, and is really hard because we have common friends.

So yes, she broke my heart, she didin't give a crap about what I felt for her, and all 7 years or my life went rigth into the trash can, all my friends tol me she was using me and actually teke my side in this story.

Then she met Karma.

She broke up with her boyfriend, dated 2 more guys and finally got married with a guy she met at work, this guy has a child with another woman, and this other woman is crazy, so the girl I love (yes, I still love her) had to take care of the kid, and she has ugly fights with the mother of the kid (she even got hit in the head with a phone, they both ended in the police station).

Even worse, she and her husband don´t have a place of their own, they live in his parents house (My first thougth: wow they can't even pay rent) and my friends always tell me when she has problems in her marriage, she was unemployed for a while, and she even wrote a post on facebbok about her husband's ex and the problemns they had (my friends showed me the post) I don't know how to feel for her.

And me? Well, I got my law degree; I moved from my parents house, got a decent job, and I'm proud to anounce that I'm buying a house of my own.

So, yeah, karma is a bitch !!!!

       

Nicolas

May 19, 2017 @ (USA)

Tags: lovely


Hello viewers out there, I just want to share my experience with the world on how i got my love back and saved my marriage… I was married for 7 years with 2 kids and we lived happily until things started getting ugly and we had fights and arguments almost every time… it got worse at a point that she filed for divorce… I tried my best to make her change is mind

       

Anonyb11

April 01, 2017 @ (Alberta)

Tags: Past regret

I was in a serious relationship with a girl for a while. We shared dreams about marriage, having kids, etc.

We were 19 and 1 day over the phone she brought up a "what-if" scenerio. "If I got preganat what would you do with our baby?" I tried to think about it rationally, instead of emotionally. I said if it was early on in the pregnancy I would consider aborting, but if it was further along and I felt I was killing a baby I would def keep it. It depends.

She was mortified by my answer; the idea that I even considered abortion was monstrous to her. I was just trying to have a conversation and she took it out of proportion, imo.

She didnt talk to me for a cpl days till she called me out of the blue to break up, blaming me for not loving her.

In hindsight I wish I answered the question differently, yrs later now having a child and would never consider abortion now that the situation is actually real.

After a cpl weeks of breaking up she found someone else, she has been with him ever since, yrs later.

I def have moved on, but it will always be a regret I always made.

       

Noah

March 29, 2017 @ (MN)

Tags: Bad breakup

I am a young and lovesick boy, one that thought online dating over a game was a good idea. I thought it was silly and rather joke like at first, until I absolutely fell for a girl. I was in love. I wanted her. I needed her. She felt the same way and eventually we started texting. We had plans of marriage, further romance, college, and so much more. Then one day I had gotten a text from her that said nothing more than, "I'm literally in tears rn...". I said "what's wrong baby?" No reply. "Are you there?" No reply. "Please don't tell me what I think happened happened..." Once more, no reply. I soon got a text message from her mother saying I was forbidden from ever talking to her daughter again. I fell into tears immeadiately. I deleted the game, and am still recovering from it. Please everyone...be careful of what you do on the internet...you may end up very hurt. Thank you for reading my awful breakup story...

       

Jacob

January 05, 2017 @ (Hamilton )

Tags: Not break up like break up

I loved one girl who is my class mate. I told her my feelings to her. I never forced her to like me . But after some time she also fell in love with me. We spent time together. But main problem was that she was married and someone told about us to her husband. Now she is not talking with me. She blocked me on social media sites. I just want to know that she really loved me? She did love marriage then why she fell in love with me?

       

Clare Bartlett

November 25, 2016 @ (CALIFONIA)

Tags: I\'m so excited share this testimony here about how i got my ex husband back after a break up WITH THE HELP OF Dr AHMED UTIMATE

Hi everyone!
I'm so excited share this testimony here about how i got my ex husband back after a break up. I'm Clara 28 yr old from Califonia USA, Am a woman who love and cherish my husband more than any other thing you can imagine on earth continent. My husband was so lovely and caring after 3years of marriage he was seriously ill and the doctor confirm and said he has a kidney infection that he needed a kidney donor, that was how I start searching for who can help, doctor has given me a periodic hour that he will live just 25hours left, that was how I ask the doctor if I can be of help to my husband that was how he carried out the text, the confirming was successful, I was now having this taught that since 3 years now we got married I have not be able to get pregnant can I be able to get bring again? That was the question I ask the doctor, he never answer his response was did you want to lost your husband? I immediately reply no I can't afford to lose him. After the operation my husband came back to live and was healthy I was also ok with the instruction given to me by the doctor, after 3months my husband came home with another lady telling me, that is our new wife that will give us kids and takecare of us, that was how I was confused and started crying all day, that was how my husband ran away with his new wife clearable. Since then I was confuse don't know what to do that was how I went back to the doctor and tell him everything, he told me that, this is not just an ordinary it must be a spiritual problem that was how he gave me this Email: Ahmedutimate@gmail.com that I should tell he all my problem that he can help that was how i contacted he and I do as instructed. After 28hours and I have done what he ask me to do, my husband start searching for me and went back to the doctor, that was how we well settle he also told me not to worry that I will get pregnant, this month making it the fifth Month I contacted he am now 3months pregnant. These great spell cater is a great man, if you have any kind of problem you can contact him here on his email: Ahmedutimate@gmail.com or call him 2348160153829

       


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