JoLeigh's Breakup Story in Tennessee - YouBrokeUpHow.com (uBUH)

JoLeigh

July 20, 2010 @ (Tennessee)

My Boyfriend and Me were together for 7 months when it all started. He found out his Uncle (which was like his dad) had cancer. I was ALWAYS there for him, and ALWAYS tried to make him feel better. I sat in the hospital with him a couple of times, to try to make him feel better. He starting acting different around me when all this happend, He was alot more mean & starting acting like he didnt care anymore. I kept telling him how he was hurting my feelings but the fighting continued. At the first of July everything starting going down hill. We fought everyday. I always trie telling him how i felt but he never listened to me. One night around the usual time he calls me He said he wasnt going to call because he was watching a movie. I just asked him If a movie was more important than me? and he said I get mad over the littest things. All I wanted was to talk to my boyfriend? The next night, I texted him and asked him if he was getting tired of me? And he said I dont know, I just need time. So that scared me and I called him. Well apparently he didnt have enough respect for me to go somewhere private so we could talk about this. Because all I could hear in the back ground was people talking & he was saying was Idk Idk Idk to every question I asked. That night I decided to ignore him for the rest of the night & the next few days, hopeing that would make him realize how much he had hurt my feelings. But that was a horrible mistake because all he did was get more pissed at me over it. I finally broke down and texted him a few days after this and all he texted back was," You know we are not dating anymore, Right?" That broke my heart. I called him and we talked for 1 hour & a half. He wanted to take a 2 week break from our relationship because he was so "stressed" & needed time to think. So I was like Okay maybe this will Help out relationship. We went 2 days without talking and i was miserable. I missed him so much. A couple of more days went by and I found out from some of our friends he had been "talking" to another girl. And he denyed it when I asked him. & even his sister said he liked her & they were talking. I told him I was done and I wanted all my stuff back from him. 2 weeks went by, and We havent talked. He has left picture comments on that girls pictures, and ive seen them. Lastnight I broke down and asked him,"Honestly do you miss me?" All he wrote back was, " Kinda, but no not really." I was crying so hard I had a panic attack. Now here I am, Alone. I try to talk to other boys but all they do is remind me of him. I cry everytime Im not with someone being occupied. I miss him ALOT, & knowing im not good enough for him to love me forver like he promised kills me every second. Im depressed & not happy anymore. Ive always been a happy person but I cant even smile anymore. Next monday we would have been together 9 months, I still feel like texting him and saying Happy 9 month Anniversary sweetheart, I love you with all my heart, but i know I cant. God makes everything happen for a reason but i dont feel that this is a blessing or to make things better. Maybe one day someone will bring back the smile on my face.

Comment on this breakup

sped

August 18, 2010

JoLeigh: grow a pair of eggs and start acting like an adult. The guys is clearly an asswipe and you have no reason to even want to be talking to an asswipe. I suspect you're either in high school or barely out of high school. Quit crying. Quit saying you love him. Quit thinking about him. You need to move on and start looking for a real boyfriend instead of some craphead like this

nick

July 23, 2010

wow thats the same way my exes have treated me it makes me feel so betrayed and alone. its like some one should set these people down and tell them to actually keep a promise they make. i got cheated on while i was in relationship for only 3 months she acted so weird and then one day i checked her phone and 200 messages about how she loved her ex boyfriend and how she wanted to leave me to be with him i still feel like you do sometimes joleigh in fact im kind of feelin it right now but she doesnt realy let me have friends to talk to so i never tell anyone how i feel, especially when she demands forgivness about it but then treats me like i dont matter...

john L.

July 21, 2010

If you think that is bad youshould read mine. I gave every last part of myself to a girl I had dreamed of 8 years before I met herby asking God to show me who I was to marry. When I was about to give up he put her in my life. She was screwed up by her ex. I gave everything even part of my soul (wings) I asked God for so I could fly and let others know that I stood for God. I lost my virginity to prevent her from seeking that comfort with someone who would just use her. In the end she left her ex which was what I wanted but told me I was nothing but a mistake. So after 7.5 months, giving everything, spending hundreds of dollars, trying to get her straight in the head, and believing in and looking for a dream for 8. She said it meant nothing and that We couldn't be friends because I loved her and she didn't love me. What was the point God what was the point? Joseph and the king of dreams helped me. Song called You know better than I also helped too.

BLAH

July 21, 2010

WOW IM NOT GOING TO LAY IT WAS 7 MONTHS, COME ONE. TRY THREE YEARS AND THEY GUY JUST PACKING HIS SHIT AND LEAVING YOU. THEN COME TO FIND OUT HE LEFT YOU FOR THE GIRL HE KNOCKED UP AND IS GETTING MARRIED TO. SO YOU HAVE NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT. I SAY GET OVER HIM AND FAST OR YOUR GOING TO BE LIKE THIS FOR A WHILE. AND HE DOESN'T EVEN SOUND LIKE HE IS WORTH THE TEARS.

Ann

July 20, 2010

When you are begging your boyfriend to call you and manipulating your relationship through silent treatments, you are with the wrong guy. I've been with that kind of guy and regardless of how much you give they suck the life and energy out of your relationship. What your going through is completely temporary, I promise. You will find someone who actually wants to talk to you, someone who doesn't make a "mutual" relationship feel like pulling teeth. And for your own sake, as hard as this is, don't give this guy the satisfaction of your attention if he gets bored with his new girl and starts missing you. He may be sorry but I can promise you, nothing will change. Find someone who wants a healthy relationship.