Brittany's Breakup Story in SC - YouBrokeUpHow.com (uBUH)

Brittany

February 13, 2010 @ (SC)

So here is our story. We met on a dating website. After meeting him and a few others, I realized he was absolutely normal and just looking for what I was looking for. Anyway, after a month or so, we began dating officially, and he always said stuff like "You're the best," "I definitely want this to be the real deal," etc. Buttttt, eventually after like 3 months, he confessed his previous break ups were screwing him up and he no longer wanted to be with me. When this happened, he was drunk. I went to his place to discuss this stuff that happened and what all he said to me to find out he was completely trashed and didn't know why he said that stuff to me. I told him that was his last chance. We were going strong so I moved in right after Christmas. It was absolutely amazing...until last night. He had his first bottle of Jim Beam in three weeks so he definitely got drunk. After three drinks, he was drunk (which isn't normal for him). His guy friend came over to play beer pong so I had my girl friend come over. She had to go home and then the crap started. He sent me a text (by the way, he was on drink 7 or 8 by now) that said "Idk if we should be together." I'm not much of a drinker. I don't like to lose control of myself. So, I took the text and went to the bedroom. He continued to drink. I told him to get in there and say stuff to me and not through texts. Of course he wouldn't so I told him that I love him and that I know I am good for him and his son. He said "Youre a great girl yeah but I can live without you sorry." Immediately, I packed a bag and left. I don't know why in the world he pulled this stuff, but I am going to move out. He apparently doesn't want to work this out.

Comment on this breakup

thedigitalDad

June 20, 2010

Sorry Brittany but I think Kim's on the right track. Too much of your relationship sounds like its too centered around booze. And Pete nailed it. If you'd a just fucked him just think you might a ended up pregnant instead with the loser. Better you send another text and tell him you're growing up and heading out the door.

sped

February 14, 2010

Brittany: you are too young to be in any kind of relationship. You are a drama queen. And you demand things from this guy that make you sound like a 6th grader. I can see why you had to meet a guy on an internet dating site. I think the guys is dead on when he says that he can live without you. What he means is that he can live without your drama and your bullshit and your demands and your bitchy attitude. Please move out and leave this poor guy alone!!!