Angelina's Breakup Story in OC - YouBrokeUpHow.com (uBUH)

Angelina

January 05, 2010 @ (OC)

Tags: guys, matt, emt, hospitals, loser, new orleans, fighting, crying

I met this guy on yahoo personals. I really thought I hit jackpot since most guys aren't that chatty, but he was. We finally met and instantly liked each other. He would text me every morning saying "good morning" and every night saying "good night." I was seriously on cloud 9. He works in a hospital so we only saw each other once a week. 6 months in we decided to take a trip to New Orleans together. We had been fighting a lot about stupid shit because we are both strong, opinionated people. I gave up a lot just to make him happy. It got to the point where I didn't care about my happiness anymore. It only mattered what he thought and what he wanted because it was easier that way. But I would slip and give my opinion sometimes and that's when we would fight, he would make fun of me for the dumbest things and put me down constantly if he didn't agree with my opinion. While we were in New Orleans he wanted to party every night, and sleep all day. I was super upset, I'm on vacation in an amazing City and you just wanna sleep all day because you wanna party all night?? I did a lot of exploring alone, which made me sad. Every time I made a decision to do something he always found something wrong with it and put me down. I cried every day. One night I begged him if we could stay home and relax. Our sex life was seriously lacking, but every time I was in the mood he wasn't...I wanted to stay in because I wanted to have a hot steamy night together. He wanted to go out. After telling me he was only going down to the hotel bar for an hour I called him 2 hours later, he said he was still there, 3 hours later he wasn't responding to my texts. 4 hours later he told me he was in the bar still, it was 2am! I went downstairs to the hotel bar and found out it had been closed since 11pm!When I finally got a hold of him and found him drunk outside he said he met some guys at the bar and went out with them. The next day I saw a couple texts in his phone to 2 girls that he was texting the night before. Saying that he wished they were there, and if they were there he wouldn't be "lonely in New Orleans."

I called him out and he laughed, saying they were just friends. I didn't really believe him but I let it go, we had 3 days left of our vacation. After coming home and a couple more weeks of me being miserable I decided we needed to talk, but he never had the time. He can't text me back, but he can text other girls? WTF?

He ended up coming over the day after Thanksgiving and breaking up with me. Stating that he cared about me sooooooooo much but just couldn't have a GF right now.

I wasted 6 months of my life with someone who wasn't all that into me and made me cry every day, and in the end, cheated on me and then HE broke up with ME. Lesson learned....my happiness should matter more then his.

Comment on this breakup

Wally

January 05, 2010

He would text me every morning saying "good morning" and every night saying "good night." I was seriously on cloud 9. Yuck. I just had some chick send me a good morning text this morning at 7am. Guess what? I don't start work until 9am and don't even get out of bed until 8:30. This was quite possibly the worst thing she could have done. I value my sleep above most things.

A

January 05, 2010

who put the stick up your ass loser...

sped

January 05, 2010

Angelina: You are 100% bitch. You go to New Orleans, which is a super party town, and you don't want to party. So you get mad at him because he wants to party! You want to explore, he doesn't, and you get mad at him. WTF, bitch? You want to what only what you want to do and expect him to join you. What color jar did you buy to put his balls in? So he spends time at bars getting pussy because you won't give it up. And you get mad at him. He's lonely in New Orleans because you won't do what he wants to do and he doesn't want to do what you want to do. What gives you the right to be so self-centered? You "wasted 6 months of (your) life". You want some ball-less pussy that worships the ground you walk upon and bends over backwards to please you. It's all about you, bitch. Do you have any idea how much of a turnoff that is to a guy? That guy has more common sense than to hook up with a spoiled, self-centered, arrogant cunt like you. If I were you I'd go to the pet store and check out the cats. You won't be waking up next to any dudes unless you change your attitude!!