C_papillon

April 19, 2015 @ (Melbourne, Australia)

Tags: Bad breakup, living together, phone break up


I was in a very committed relationship with my ex, where we moved in with each other after one and a half years. Things were going well (I thought) with the occasional bickering of two people who live together but there was never a day when we didn't say we loved each other. About six months in, one day after we had spent a lovely day pulling 'sickies', having brunch, watching our favourite TV show together, I received a phone call from our landlord while at work. She was calling me to confirm if someone under the name of (my ex), needed a reference for a new lease. I thought it was some sort of mistake so I told her not to worry about it and hung up. She called back immediately and suggested that I find out what the situation is from my ex. So, I duck out thinking I'd make a quick phone call to sort out a silly misunderstanding. He picks up after a couple of rings, I tell him the story and his reply was 'Yes, I'm really sorry you had to find out this way but I'm moving out tonight, I was going to tell you after work'. It was a legit WHAT THE F. moment.


       


 

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Sara

April 20, 2015


wow, thats exactly what I am doing! I learnt so much about my self


     


c_papillon

April 20, 2015


*Sara I was sad and now a week later I'm actually delirious, a little angry, a little happy, almost joyous. When there's nothing you can do, you just have to learn to love yourself and enjoy every moment of life! If he comes to his senses, he'll make it right again.


     


Sara

April 19, 2015


arrghh it makes me angry! And Sara, from the post you commented on earlier! It just seems like they don't know what they want. If only the could say what went wrong and give us another chance to make it right!