Justanothergirl.'s Breakup Story in Australia

Justanothergirl.

October 04, 2014 @ (Australia)

Year 9:
I met him on a train, he went to my brother school.
September 17th 2012, he asked me out.

Year 11:
Almost two years, we were the strongest couple in our school, he was kind, caring, perfect, we won prince and princess at our school formal.
I often overreacted at some stuff, and whenever i did i would always pull the "lets break up then" card, but we always worked them out, always! We were so tight, and he was so clingy and i loved that about him.
Then one day we had a fight, we were skyping and he shared screens with me and it was porn, and then he quickly hung up and said "i don't know how it got there." I wasn't mad, just upset, i couldn't even satisfy my own boyfriend, my self esteem dropped i guess. He knew i was upset and kept asking if i was mad, and i chucked the "lets take a break then" card. I regret it.
He didn't even fight for me.
He texted me a day before my birthday that "I hurt him too much" and he "couldn't handle it" 5 days before our 2 year anniversary.

To think that they guy who planned your whole future together, told you where he was going to propose, how many kids you two were having, break up with you, yeah. that sucks.

Am I in the wrong? Ah, im so confused.

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anon

October 06, 2014

Yeah, seems like you took him for granted by always playing the let's break up card. My boyfriend always plays that card and after awhile it just gets annoying and I just get apathetic everytime he says it. Sorry sweetie, but you had this break up going for you. :/ Also, just because a guy watches porn does not mean you don't satisfy him. No matter what you do guys will be watching porn. Just let it go.