Lauren

November 13, 2013 @ (NY)

Tags: bad break ups, how to break up

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I havent broken up with my boyfriend yet, but I'm about to. We have been together for 2 years. When we started dating I was still talking to my ex and that really hurt him(thats what he made me believe) and he made my life hell because I used to talked to my ex in our first month of being together. After like a month of being together I moved in with him and I dropped out of college, I quieted my job, I dint talk to my family, didnt have Any friends other than him. I did all that to show him that i really loved him and no one else. After a while I found out that at the beginning of our relationship, just like me, he was talking to his ex too and not only talking, after I moved in, He was begging her to go back with him. I also found out that he was inviting girls to go out. I also found out that in valentines day he didnt even say happy valentines day to me but he wrote his ex a big email saying how much he wanted to marry her and how much he loves her, and if she needed help, he was there for her. I found out all that almost after a year of us being together. Now we being together for more than 2 years on and off. We still leaving together. He has a son that I love like if he was my son, but he also has a step son (the son of his son's mom and they broke up like 7 years a go) and he is leaving with us and he is a fucking pain in the ass. But not only his step son leaves with us, my boyfriend's mom also leaves with us. Whenever she wants to yell at me she does, whenever she wants to be nice to me she is, but most of the time she doesnt talk to me. I dont work because if I work is a big fight because he doesnt want me to work. So, I have to be home taking care of his real kid, the pain in the ass of his step son, put up with my boyfriend's bitch mom and also put up with my boyfriends crap. On top all that he never complements, anything I do is enough for him. But after all that I'm still loving him and its been so painful every time we have broken up in the past and we always go back together within a month. I am soooo tired of this and i dont know how to break up forever because I'm afraid of the pain that I'm gonna feel plus i think of his real son that is like my son too.
So please I will appreciate any advice.

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Tom

June 24, 2015

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Allison- are you hot?

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allison

June 21, 2015

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Really? You left college and quit your job for this loser? Don't victimize yourself, you chose to be in this situation. You could've done something amazing with yourself and instead you let this person walk over your principles and morals and on top of which you let his own mother destroy that as well. You are a nanny to him and that's it. I am disappointed that women like you want to do a pity party instead of being independent and resourceful.

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stevo

January 25, 2014

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Big mistake you made-Moved in with Loverboy,dropped out of College and quit your job Best you wake up !.

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becca

December 03, 2013

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i think you should say to him fuck you, you son of a bitch and leave as while hes away having fun you are minding his son and i bet you have done more for his son than him or his mother and you do not need to live like that and if your ex treated you right and you still love him then move in with him or be with him as he is probably way better than the boyfriend you have now hes just a self contoled creep and i would not put up with his sit let alone his mothers shit.

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Leah

November 20, 2013

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Oh my god! I'm really sorry if what I say is going to hurt you, but I suggest you to leave him as soon as you possibly can! He's a cheater, a liar and so what if you live him? I don't want to sound harsh, but honestly, feelings change, don't worry, leaving him would be the best decision... I know it may be hard at first but it's the best, trust me. Always think with your mind because letting your heart speak, or else you'll end up doing unwise decisions. I'm sorry sweetie, hope it al works out for you.

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Marko

November 15, 2013

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LEAVE!!!!!

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Anita

November 14, 2013

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Sweetie please leave him as soon as possible because if you keep lying to urself about loving him one day when ur old ull look back and regret everything u did for this ungrateful man of yours. Leave him for good and go back to your normal life, you deserve to go to school and work if you wish to and plus he cheated on u why didnt u broke up with him? If you have any questions or if u want to talk please feel free to email me its

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