Steven's Breakup Story in Vermont - YouBrokeUpHow.com (uBUH)

Steven

March 06, 2012 @ (Vermont)

My sister gave her friend my number and instantly we started hitting it off. We talked everyday and all day long as well as hung out as much as possible. One day I asked her if she wanted to be official and she agreed. We were together for a few weeks and in that few weeks she said she loved me. I on the other hand wasnt ready to tell her that. Then a few days later she texted me in the middle of the night saying she rushed into the relationship and wasn't ready to be with someone. This was strange because days before she was saying things the COMPLETE opposite. She said she still wanted to talk and hang out and be together but just not officially. So I agreed and things kept going for a week until one day I was at her house playing a game on her iphone when randomly this kid texted her calling her "babe" I was skeptical so I went through the conversation while she wasn't looking and I found days worth of conversations with stuff like her saying "I want you" and "I miss you babe" (stuff she usually says to me) So i showed it to her and she freaked out and begged me not to leave and me being the idiot i was spent all night listening to her explain herself. She said that he meant nothing to her and one of the main reasons she broke up with me in the first place was that "there was another guy" which turned out to be her ex. This devastated me but when we were making up and spending the night together I told her I loved her. We were so close for a while until one day she texted my sister and told her "I make her feel like shit sometimes" which makes no sense because I had done nothing wrong. She told me she needed space from me and said If i dont do so then I'll "lose her forever" I spent two weeks not talking to her and in those two weeks I was in a deep depression and couldn't enjoy anything I once loved doing. So one day she texted me saying she missed me and took me back but once again she went through this stupid little phase she had where she just wouldn't talk to me or wouldn't call me "babe" or call me "her boyfriend" I checked her facebook and she flirts with SO many guys she calls them "babe" and "boo" and I just couldn't believe my eyes. I texted her 8 pages of everything that I felt and told her that she made no effort in the relationship and treated me like an idiot. She then proceeded to deny flirting and talking with other guys when I can clearly see her doing it on facebook. I broke up with her and she told me it was all my fault. Pssh yeah right. I know Im a good guy and I didnt deserve that. Fuck any girl who is a tease and thinks flirting with a million guys is cool. You aren't cool. It's unattractive and makes you look like a slut/idiot/bitch that no one likes

Comment on this breakup

John L.

March 13, 2012

Heh you were smart and avoided the trap I fell into.I tried to save a girl from herself and bent over backwards. Got blamed for everything and I have been single for almost 2 years because I dont want to give another girl that much control in my life only to abuse it and destroy the big loving person I once was.

unknown

March 09, 2012

Wow I wish most guys were like you!! If I dated you, I'd cuff you & freaking marry you on the spot!! [Maybe not, that would freak you out... But you know what I mean!] From what you've written, I can tell you're a really nice guy :) Girls like her make guys like you give up on love... Don't let her do that! She's stupid for letting a guy like you get away... She'll eventually realise that. Don't fall for her schemes, I know a lot of girls like that & they hardly ever change! Please don't change the amazing person you are because of this girl! One day, you'll make some girl extremely happy!! :):) keep ya head up... I hope you find her soon :)