DJ

April 13, 2011 @ (U.S.)

Tags: broken up heart

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So here's my story:

I'm 17, just your average guy, I play a lot of sports, have a job... my girlfriend of almost a year dumped me 2 months ago. I met her over 3 years ago at a youth group. We were close friends for 2 years before we started dating. Last February we started hanging out a lot. By the time Summer started we were head over heals in love with each other. I guess I was kind of the "bad boy" we snuck out all Summer long and I disrespected her grandfather whom she was living with at the time. In August he kicked her out of his house and she was forced to move in with her alcoholic/abusive mother who is the only other person she had to live with. She doesn't have any other family and her entire family has a whole lot of problems. She also has a past of a lot of abuse in her history as I found out eventually. As for me, I also do not have any family or relatives. I live alone with my single mother and my younger siblings. My family has just as many problems as hers does. My mother is really the only person I have, however, we are not that close. My ex-girlfriend goes to a different high school then me and as we went through the school year her life became very challenging at home. We stayed together though. I was there for her through it all time-and-time again. I even got my ma to let her live with us for a while to be away from her life at home. In my heart she became the love of my life. We had so much in common in our pasts. The same goals for our futures. We could understand each others pain like no one ever could. I loved her with all my heart for near 10 months

Anyways we started fighting because of her own problems at home. This went on all the way through December and January. I tried to be supportive of her problems, but she started pushing me away, more so every couple weeks. In February, after I hadn't seen her in 3 whole weeks (which she filled with excuses, and insincere reasons why she couldn't see me) she called me and broke up with me on the phone. I asked if I could at least see her one more time. She refused. I asked her why it had come to this and her reasons were things such as she wanted to be independent, she did't wanna be in a relationship anymore, she didn't feel like we should take relationships so seriously at this time in our life, blah blah blah. So after hours of tears on my part I let her go. If this is what she wanted, then I wanted her to just be happy. Anyways, I had been the only one really holding the relationship together for 3 months and I couldn't take it anymore. I never texted her or called her once after we broke up on the stupid phone that night.

Two weeks later after a lot of pain and hurt, I was at a party with some buddies. I asked a mutual friend who I saw there how she was doing to find out that she had been cheating on me with some fuckin douche bag who's six foot-seven, plays basketball, drives a 2010 mustang, is rich, and apparently is a big player at her school. This hurt so much that I ended up getting in a fight with another guy at the party. I couldn't sleep for days, and still have a lot of trouble sleeping. I wanted really bad to go find this guy she'd been cheating on me with. Luckily I didn't. Now I'm sitting here a month later still heartbroken. She has made me hate my life, and according to people she's having a great time with this other guy. I've gone out with 2 girls since we broke and neither one of them has meant anything to me. As of right now I hate my life, I hate her, and I wish she was NEVER ever a part of my life.

That's basically my story. Enough said.

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So Sorry!

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jayleen

August 18, 2011

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Hey Hun , Trust Me , Love Is Beautiful But It Hurts Like Hell And Im Pretty Sure You Know That By Now .. But Lemme Tell You,Time Will Heal Your Broken Heart Somehow , Sometime , And In Someway ;; I Know Your Hurting Bad Cause I Am Also And Its A Very Bad Feeling Cause It Can Leave You To A Lifetime Suffering (Its Happening To Mee And Im A Very Young Teenager And Its Been Over A Year Since This Has Happen To Me And It Still Hurts Me Bad] But Yea You'll Get Over It Sooner Than You Know It ;; * -Xoxo Jayleen

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JohnL.

June 15, 2011

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maybe my story will help you http://www.youbrokeuphow.com/view_post.php?bid=265

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wong

June 14, 2011

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wow, this makes me so sad. i'm so sorry to hear. as a girl, i hate girls :(

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Christina

May 23, 2011

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hello, im chrissy. i honestly went the pretty much same thing you did and i cant stop fuckin thinking about it/him and i cant sleep/eat. me and him were togetehr for 11 months exactly and were BFFs for like 5. he had a name tattooed across his stomoch and was planning to propose to me on our one year (june 13). we got into a huge fight and it got violent. found out he has cheated on me with multiple girls and said some SUPER ruthless ass shit to me that hurts so bad. i also have family problems like your ex and he was always there for me like you were and i ever moved in with him because of it. this is the worst feeling in the damn world and idk how to cope. so your not alone. but we just gotta tihnk positive and realize that we dont deserve the bullshit. hang in there.

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Osama bin laden

May 03, 2011

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You will get over this as time passes! You will meet a girl one day that will make you forget all about this girl and will make you see how a relationship should be. When that happens you will realize how bad your relationship was. If you are a clingy guy, get with a clingy girl. Don't try t o date someone who needs a lot of space. Get someone with similiar goals.

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Savannah

April 17, 2011

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Ohh, man you got hurt bad . I truly am sorry .

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