Sarah's Breakup Story in Michigan - YouBrokeUpHow.com (uBUH)

Sarah

November 25, 2010 @ (Michigan)

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My situation is unique for why i have such a shattered heart.... i was with my boyfriend for 6 months...i know its not that long but i loved him more than anything he was my best friend and i trusted him...and he got me pregnant....When i first told him the news he was excited and wanted me to keep the baby. Even though we're both really young and I myself am not ready to be a mother. But because i loved him and i wanted to be with im forever i thought maybe we could make this work. Then the next day he broke up with me through a text messege while i was at work. You can imagine how hurt i was. I couldnt even work the rest of that day because i was soooo hurt and confused. You're probably thinking that hes just an immature 21 year old and yes that is true but i cant shake the horrible heart breaking feeling over this. He will not give me an explination of any sort. He wont talk to me at all.
That's not even the worst part. I found out a week later he has a new girlfriend who has a baby. He is posting facebook status' that say how much he cant stop thinking about his "wife" and "baby" and he is as happy as he has ever been in his life. I know now that i shouldnt have looked at his facebook, and after reading that i promised myself i will NEVER look at it again. Its unbelievably heart breaking to know that he left me to be with that girl who has baby. I felt i had no other choice but to get an abortion. I dont want to be a single mother at this age. I dont think i could do it alone. I am so confused because i dont know what i would have done for him to leave me like that. I dont understand why he would want me to keep our baby then throw me away like trash and then run off with that other girl. He's rubbing my nose in it with those facebook posts. The pain i feel with this is excruciating. While im here miserablely heart broken wondering what i had done wrong he is out there with his new girlfriend he calls his "wife" and hes being a father to her baby. Also that girl he is with changed her last name on facebook to his last name, as if they were married. It is absolutly rediculous because i almost feel like he is doing all of this on purpose to get at me, but i also think maybe is real between them and they really do want to be married after only knowing eachother one week. Well for all i know they could have been going out when me and him were together, but i try not to think of it that way. I do have to mention that he didnt help pay for the abortion after i asked him to. He completely ignored me. So i have talked with his mother about my situation. She is on my side with this which is somewhat comforting but doesnt change what happend...
I dont know what i should do to work past this. I cant stop thinking about it. I have had past relationships and i thought i've been heartbroken before but nothing like this. This is pain i have never felt before and its horrible. I want answers. Everyone says I am young and ill move on and forget about all this over time. I just keep waiting around because maybe he will give me a explination for all of this. I NEVER saw this coming. Me and im were happy together and we also seen eachother every day so what happend makes no sense to me at all. I can imagine he met her one day and then BAM desided to get "married" and be a happy family. It's confusing and i dont understand.

Comment on this breakup

j*ie

December 20, 2010

wow he is officialy the biggest douche ever. i too had a bad break up, but there are many heartless people in the world that have problems within themselves perhaps insecurities, and that dont know what they want. people like that will be very selfish and continue hurting others without a care or realizing it. Just stay strong because god gives us obstacles in our life to overcome, god has the right person for you jus keep going forth and whats best for yourself And the right person will accept you and love you more than you ever imagined. what goes around comes around perhaps one day you'll back and pity those who hurt you because with the greatest dissapointments follows great success.

John L.

December 17, 2010

I know what you mean. I hate how so many people say well there are plenty of fish in the sea or time heals all wounds. It's bullcrap. I was with a girl 7.5 months and here I am 7 months later and it still hurts like hell. He had noright to do what he did and has no honor. I was being used by the girl in my relationship maybe he was using u. I know the pain. For me I couldnt move, breath, muscle spasms, as tears just kept flowing from my eyes and it feels like you are having a heart attack. They are not fun. I will pray for you and that God will help you. Pray for me bec. I am still suffering as well. People say man what a whimp but in reality its that many of us share all of our hearts with someone and once it is broken you never fully open up to someone else ever again.