Martha

October 17, 2010 @ (California)

Tags: jealousy, ossessive, cheating, moving on, fake

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I dated my ex for 13 months and it's been 2 months since the breakup, but I still feel lke crying every now and then. He told me that if I ever broke up w/ him he'd never date,marry, or have kids with anyone else because he'd love me forever and would nver break up with me. What bullshit. I broke it off, and it seems like it's taking a toll on me and not so much on him.Just a few minutes ago I accidently went to my friend's page, who's also his friend because of me, and saw a post by him and,consequently, his new profile pic.It's indeed pathetic that he's probably trying to make me jealous by posting some pic of him and a girl,but it was enough to make me feel even worse. How do I move on?He told me he's started smoking,so I kno it was hard for him too, but i think it's even harder for me because he always lied to me and probably cheated on me, who knows. He gave out his number to his girl-friend on facebook and I found this out b/c I had his account info, but I thought he'd have the decency to tell me instead of having me find out like that.I wouldn't've been mad at him for that if he hadn't lied and said he didn't wanna talk to any girls but me. Not to mention he admit he took me for granted the first 10 months of the relationship, chose his friends and work over me, etc. I wanna unlove him so bad and meet someone better and worthy of my love.It hurts me because he was my first love and the first person I lost my v to, and I've heard that you can never get over your first love. I hope that's not true.My best friend said she always hated him and sensed his fakeness from the start,and now I regret dating him and losing it to him. I may have cheated on him twice, but I never felt so guilty because he treated me so bad. He started trying to control how I dress and what I do.He was so jealous and possessive,but deep down I knew he was just using me for sex and cus he wanted to have his cake and eat it too. It's just so hard to move on after knowing his family and reminscing about all the good times, any advice for me?

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hoodoo

October 21, 2010

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Martha: well, you're still a crazy bitch! And how big are those titties?

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Martha

October 21, 2010

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chico rush, i get it, u didnt have to call me a crazy bitch lol.

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Chico Rush

October 21, 2010

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Maybe at first he did mean what he said to you.Maybe he thougth you felt the same way.Maybe after YOU did the breaking up he decided that pining away for someone who doesn't want him any more is stupid.So what if he's seing another girl or two or twenty...YOU broke up with him.Why should he inform you if he gives out his number to another girl?you say that you think he cheated on you and you obviously feel wronged by that.....but you did it too..TWICE!you should also stay the hell out of other people's * and email accounts even if you have all the logon info.after YOU broke up with him it's no longer your business what he does,who he does,where he does it,when he does it or how he does it.just let it go.Maybe you can call up one of the guys you banged while you were with him and get laid or something.maybe your guy was cheating or maybe he wasn't.maybe he ignored you for the first 10 months of your relationship but maybe he didn't.maybe he's a jerk but maybe he isn't.You,though,are a seriously crazy bitch.get over it and leave him alone.

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liza

October 20, 2010

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i think that your pathetic dude get off his nuts obviously he didnt mean anything he said every guy says shit like that so they can get there dick wet but no guy really ever means it. they are assholes and wont ever learn till they grow up

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morgan owns

October 18, 2010

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yo hoodoo u have some anger issues. y r u letting out all ur rage on a breakup site lol. i guess to each his own

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sherri

October 18, 2010

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Hey she never said she banged the other dude.

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sherri

October 18, 2010

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Hey she never said she banged the other dude.

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hoodoo

October 18, 2010

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Yeah, STFU!! You broke up with him and then you start stalking him on *, and are bitching and whining about what he is doing with his life and about who he sees and what he does. If you were so concerned about him, then why did you break up with him? If you were so concerned about him, then why did you cheat on him? You're nothing but a very immature, self centered and need cunt. You feel sorry for yourself because you spread your legs for this guy and now say it was a mistake -- and you're taking your anger out on him. You don't say how old you are, but I'm guessing you are 15, maybe 16. And you've already lost your virginity and banged 2 other guys. You're nothing but an easy fuck who is trying to make herself feel better

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