Time-Filler's Breakup Story in East Coast

Time-Filler

November 11, 2009 @ (East Coast)

I used to be shy around guys (I was messed up with commitment and trust issues). Usually a guy would give up pursuing me cause I would always push them away. One time this guy didn't give up so I thought I would give it a chance. I mean, I can't be alone forever! So we start hanging out and he tell everyone we are dating and it is serious. News to me. After after about 3 months he has a work party that I am not allowed to go to. He told me a month in advance so I didn't really care. Then I find out his ex (who he used to work with) will be there. A few days later he breaks up with me claiming that I made him feel guilty for talking to his ex. First of all, I'm not sure how i did that because I never complained or anything. So I tell him maybe he is still in love with her. He tells me "no" and then proceeds to recite a laundry list of everything that was wrong with me. He got back with his ex and they have been together for a year. I'm just pissed he didn't have the balls to tell me the truth! I wasn't that into him anyway. But I did feel like I was a time-filler until his ex was done having her "fun" an wanted him back. That wasn't the best feeling in the world.

Comment on this breakup

realman

November 30, 2009

"Wasn't that into him?" Then why post here? Furthermore, let this be a lesson to you for future dealings with men. Do not ask questions. Once conversation leaves dealings of the kitchen, so does your voice. Understand?

sped

November 17, 2009

now you know what it is like to be a booty call. Buy some cats, you sound like a high maintenance loser

dan

November 12, 2009

I doubt that was his intention when he became involved with you, but if he ran back to her that quickly he probably did still have feeling for her. him trying to blame you for his decision is just him looking for validation because he has no backbone.