Lara

October 14, 2009 @ (Canada)

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My ex, with whom I have a beautiful daughter with, and I dated for 3.5 years. I moved out to his small hometown and put my university plans on hold so that we could start a family and our life together. After 2ish years of being a stay-at-home mom, I decided that it was time to go back to school so my daughter and I moved into the city (1.5 hours away) while he stayed to keep his well paying job and live in the house that we had bought. He came to the city every weekend, his weeks off, and every holiday that he had from work. We eventually decided to rent out our house and he began to live in the city and commute to work. Nothing had changed, other than the amount of time we were together and my load of responsibilities (which I handled quite well), but he became increasingly aggravated. In April of my first year of school, he confessed that he resented me for going back to school and felt that I had to prove that I was better than him. He broke up with me with the excuse that it just wasn't working and he couldn't be with "someone like me". We remained friends for the sake of our daughter and everything was fine. It wasn't until I had met and started dating someone else that he decided that he didn't really break up with me in the first place, and that he had just wanted a break from the stress of our changing relationship. After this epic attempt had failed to sway me, he proceeded with trying everything possible to sabotage my life (ie. take custody of our daughter, cut off all financial assistance, force me to quit school, ruin my new relationship). Thankfully, everything that he tried was unsuccessful. My daughter is still with me, I am still in nursing school working towards my bachelor in science and nursing, and am in a wonderful relationship with my new boyfriend.

I'm sorry sweetheart, but real life doesn't work that way.

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realman

November 30, 2009

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I'm sure your daughter will appreciate that you believe your happiness to be above everything else in life. Spoiled whore.

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Mizzle

October 15, 2009

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You suck whore! they let you near patients? how do they know you wont start fucking them? you ruined that relationship with your greed and selfishness.

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blow me

October 14, 2009

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yeah so ur just a dirty bitch. first of all, you need to go back to school.. did you ever take an english course? second of all, he told you that he basically needed a break and you fucked someone behind his back. I hope your daughter doesnt grow up to be as screwed up as you.

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October 14, 2009

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yeah so ur just a dirty bitch. first of all, you need to go back to school.. did you ever take an english course? second of all, he told you that he basically needed a break and you fucked someone behind his back. I hope your daughter doesnt grow up to be as screwed up as you.

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James

October 14, 2009

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Umm...dumbest thing i have read in a while, self gratifying much?

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Fred

October 14, 2009

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"Nothing had changed, other than the amount of time we were together" So, in other words, the entire relationship. Another gem here is how he tried to "sabotage my life" by choosing to "cut off all financial assistance". Well, you've got your meal ticket now sweetheart, go ahead and run your life how you want, never mind that a relationship is about compromises, not "I decide I want to do this now and that's just going to have to work for you".

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Justin

October 14, 2009

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You plainly choose school over your relationship. When you undertake something like school and have a child there is not time for much else. For a relationship to work it requires each person to devote time and energy. Your time and energy stopped going to your man and he became disconnected, and rightfully so. He started to resent you, and again, he should. Hopefully you told your daughter the reason her dad is no longer around.

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Break Up Basher

October 14, 2009

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I hope your "university plans" weren't to become a grammar teacher with that sentence fragment at the beginning. Stop whining.

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Lindsey

October 14, 2009

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you go girl!

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Tanis

October 14, 2009

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Hmm Apparently it takes a horrible woman to want a successful career instead of being a catering housewife.

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