Frank's Breakup Story in UK - YouBrokeUpHow.com (uBUH)

Frank

October 13, 2009 @ (UK)

So I was with this nice young christian girl for nearly 2 years in total. First few months were fine, we got along really well and quickly got pretty serious. Then I had to go back to uni (my final year), but it was only an hour down the road so it hardly counted as long distance. We kept it going for that year, then had an amazing summer once I'd graduated.

Then she went off to the same uni that I'd just graduated from, so since it was still only an hour down the road, we figured we'd done that distance before so we could do it again.

A couple of months in, I get a call from her in tears saying she'd got really drunk and made out with one of her close friends up there. I liked her a lot and she was clearly quite cut up about this, so I said we'd work past it. I asked my best friend (who was still at that uni on a four year course) what I should do. He gave some good advice and I ended up speaking softly to her friend asking him not to make her choose between us because he'd lose and their friendship was special. My best mate also said he'd look after her from that point.

A couple of months later I find out that both of those two guys had basically been taking turns with my girlfriend for ages behind my back!!

The lesson here is that long distance is hard, and rarely works out. And that sweet innocent christian girls usually ain't!

Comment on this breakup

breakupartist

October 28, 2009

agreed..but the innocence is so sexy it must be taken advantage of. learn from your previous mistakes young jedi and evolve.

Ricky

October 13, 2009

I dated a nice Christian girl myself, and after we got engaged, she quickly broke it off to sleep around for a while (from what I heard, usually with more than one guy, sometimes at the same time) before getting engaged again to another guy. I'm not sure how that engagement turned out, but apparently, girls brought up in an oppressive Christian household just let all their sexual demons out at once. I guess we all make our mistakes.

Fred

October 13, 2009

Raw deal bud, you did everything here you should have, hope this doesn't discourage you towards your mates and other girls in the future. Some women are just weak that way, and some guys are just jackals. Just be glad they're out of your life, and her ways were exposed before you had walked down the aisle or had a kid.