Sarah

June 05, 2012 @ (united states)

Tags: breakup advice help

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I really dont know what to do.
My boyfriend and I were together for almost 4 years.. we started dating right before junior year in high school. i went away to college and we still made the relationship work. During high school we had alot of problems with him and other girls but we always worked thru it as hard as it was on me. and once college began he definatley grew up and stopped playing those stupid games. whenever i came home to visit from college it always seemed like he didnt have time for me, and would fall asleep on me when we would hang out. a little over a month ago i came home and we were arguing alot, so out of the blue i broke up with him, hoping that it would just be a break to just recollect and realize we need eachother in eachother's lives. i still saw him in my future. after the break up he kept texting me nonstop saying he missed me and wanted me back, but i stood my ground especially cause finals were coming up and i wanted to focus on that at the time. in the meantime, there was a man at my college who was interested in me and we went on a couple dates and he kissed me but right away i knew it wouldnt work out and still thought of my ex so i let him know right away i didnt want to keep dating. my ex found out we kissed and right away and it made him want me even more, but i told him i wanted to start over with him (my ex) and not jump back into the relationship asap. now, for the last two weeks, he stopped talking to me, and i realized i was ready to be with him again. i kept texting him, but he stopped responding. two nights ago i wrote him a long letter explaining why i did everythign that i did, and that i saw a future with him and just wanted to work everything out now that it is summer and were back in the same city. he finally texted me when he got my letter, pretty much saying to leave him alone, hes moving on, and doesnt see me in the future (even though two weeks prior he said he would marry me if he could). i am SO hurt. i begged for one more chance and he said no. i feel like i pushed him away and now its to late, and i am never going to forgive myself for it. it just doesnt make sense how after two weeks he went from seeing me in the future to not. and i saw on facebook this morning hes taking some new girl to a concert and spedning alot of time with her. honestly, what do i do. im so heartbroken...

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VRo

August 16, 2012

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my boyfriend was doing the same thing to me. He was playing the same game yu did. I begged him and begged for a really long time. Than i just stopped and noticed he was getting all these wall posts on * from his ex and some other girls. Once i stopped texting him and just left him alone he came running back. Yu dont play games with people.

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Akon

June 14, 2012

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you played the game and LOST!

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MikeHawke

June 10, 2012

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Another dumb ass game playing GIRL who thinks her playing games with her man will make him want her MORE??? Sorry lady, thats not how a man thinks.. In his eyes you are just a game playing pain in the ass and you got exactly what you deserve. Enjoy the life of misery that your kind of thinking always brings!

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Holly

June 10, 2012

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He felt hurt and stupid so he was trying to cover it up, and since that has hurt him more, and made him more embarrassed, he will more than likely never get back together with you... Sorry...

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Heather

June 09, 2012

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No offense, but you should have realized what you had before you treated him like you did. Kissing another guy is not the way to show him that you care about him... just saying

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