Laura's Breakup Story in Missouri - YouBrokeUpHow.com (uBUH)

Laura

May 10, 2012 @ (Missouri)

I started dating this guy about a year and a half ago. We were absolute BEST friends through high school, and going into a relationship seemed like the most natural, easy thing to do.
We're both Christians and agreed to make God the center of our relationship. Everything, and I mean EVERYTHING, was like a movie moment. We danced together, laughed together, we even sat and watched the sunset together (yes, cheesy..I know.) I got used to him being by my side all of the time. I depended on him. He was there for me through the ups and downs, and we supported each other through every decision.
He's a football player, and I went to every game I could. We were always at the others' house and his family was like my second family. People referred to us as "Mark and Laura", not just as "mark" or "laura" individually.
People, including myself, always just assumed we'd last forever. I mean, great clean Christian relationship for a year and a half after being best friends throughout high school. What could go wrong?

Last week, out of the blue, he told me that we needed time apart. He explained that he still cared for me, but didn't want a relationship at the moment. I tried being strong in front of him, but went home and bawled. He has hardly spoken to me since then, and he's been talking to his ex (who I've always been jealous of) recently and I literally feel sick to my stomach. I can't eat, I can't sleep, and I just constantly ache. All it takes is hearing his name and I just want to curl up in a ball and cry. ....Advice, please?

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jsal;fds

July 16, 2012

it's been two months now. I know the exact feeling you described. Love yourself, feel happy with yourself. I hope you're doing well.

katherine

May 14, 2012

look at mine :/ gimmie ur opinion

katherine

May 14, 2012

look at mine :/ gimmie ur opinion

John L.

May 13, 2012

Read my story. Hit browse, popular, then John L. you may find answers if not I will try to help you as a fellow Christian. Someimtes people need that space to find themselves, focus on school, etc. Granted most of the time people say it when they are trying to get out of or end a relationship. Sad to say. Be strong. If you need advice leave a msg on your profile or my story