DEMI's Breakup Story in missouri - YouBrokeUpHow.com (uBUH)

DEMI

March 23, 2012 @ (missouri)

hi im new to this website...an i jus needed a place to tell my story...imma start off by saying...i jus turned 25 an i was in a 4 year relationship wit a man named jamall...the first 2 years with him was great .he proposed an life was cool until 2 months later after the engagement i caught him in a online affair wit a girl a state away ..so i broke offf the engagment ...so the next 2 years i had caught him up in many lies...until 2010 he started dj at a local club...i felt like i had to live up to his image..he was getting noticable an hott...so i felt as a dj girlfriend i should look da part an i did i bought fake ass pads...an the nicest clothes to meet his standards..well after a year doin that i became someone else i lost my idenity an started becoming someone i didnt recongize...an his actions were getting worst ..until on day in may of 2011 changed my life forever..i meet a guy who was in da army ...he was everything my boyfriend wasnt ...so by that point my boyfriend was doin his thing an he stopped showing me love an care..an attention ..so when this new guy came in my life to provide me all that i loved it...so on our first date we had sex...it was the best sex i ever had...an it jus happened ..we enjoyed it an the feeling we were feeling so we decided to see each other again an again sex sex an more sex...feelings were getting involved an we didnt care he was single i wasnt but it felt soo right ...so he had to leave for germany 3 weeks into me cheating i had fell inlove with him ..an had a man at hme..but i didnt care i was happy an myself with the army guy...so he left an i was faced with my bf back hme..it was the most miserable time ever...i continued to talk to the army guy for 6 months until he came hme again on leave in december 2011 ..we were inlove at that point an i was ready to leave my bf..an all i wanted was the army guy well...i had came across my bf had been sleeping wit a 19 yer old since november 2011 an i found out all this in february on my bday..i was floored ...he say he still loves me but he cant treat me right ...his actions are wht ran me off in the first place ...i really love the army guy an he loves me 2 we r sooo happy together ...i dnt kno if i should leave my 4 year relationship or leve my 10 month affair...please u guys help me but i love the army guy he is da one but my bf we only have time no kids no future plans no promises so ill take all the advice u can give

Comment on this breakup

kyla

April 18, 2012

honestly got da army guy at least he treats u right and he makes u happy da bf is jus a wanker tbh he pushed u away so leave him

Chelsea

April 17, 2012

Stay with your boyfriend. The two of you deserve each other.

Alex

April 11, 2012

You're floored that the dude is cheating on you and you've been cheating on him for 10 months? Really? Am I the only one that finds that severely hypocritical?

Anonymous

March 26, 2012

I think touvwould be moving from one hard relationship to the other. Though, you might've more happier knowing you're with the army guy, can you handle being away from each other for months at a time? The other guy may have more time with you but it sounds like it was more of a waste of your time.

Taylor

March 25, 2012

I was in a a four year, I just got out of it. I love him to death but we need time apart to evaluate. I miss him but it has to happen. He never cheated like that but he couldn't figure out what he wanted. Why drag yourself down hoping a man will change. He is with you and obviously doesn't understand how you feel or cares. He may love you yes, that doesn't mean he is what you need. Take a leap besides if anything maybe you can take time apart and reavaluate what is seriously important. He sounds like and ass to me

Jacy

March 24, 2012

Ok so if the other guy has cheated on you.. Apparently many times.. I think the best to do would be.. To LEAVE HIM! you can't have a guy who won't value you enough to only stay true to you! And you doing that and going off with both of the guys is just as bad as that guy jamal And the army guy is staying true to you! And you should return the favor and stay true to him as well but if your having a hard time deciding always ask yourself this question "who TRULY 100% makes me happier?"... That's just my opinion so you decide cause it's all your choice