Roxana

March 03, 2012 @ (Atlanta)

Tags: Matthew, John

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So basically I used to date a guy, let's call him Mark, for almost 2 years. In the meanwhile his best friend and I were getting super close. You see Mark was a very possessive and religious person and would really get on my nerves. Moreover I could not trust him as he would spill all of my secrets and said some pretty personal things to others about me :/

So John (the best friend) was nice to me and comforting and we would occasionally hold hands. My friend Matthew, who is currently my best guy mate, would tell me to break up with Mark..

Eventually John was a bastard and spread a rumour around school that I was cheating on Mark with him and well I dumped Mark.

Fast forward to 7 months later and I started dating John even though he was really horrible and mean. Throughout the relationship he would ignore me, would not tell me where he was headed, and basically really hurt me. Matthew was upset as he told me that John was using me.

Things were pretty intimate with John, but one day, out of the blue, he said and I quote 'I was only with you to use you.. and anyway I'm not ready for a relationship bla bla bla... Its me not you'

This happened in July and it is now February.. he has a girlfriend and seems so loved up with her.. I have a boyfriend who loves me and respects me and cherishes me for who I am.. The day after John dumped me I went out with my best friend but after some intense make out sessions he decided that he doesnt want to be more than friends..

So that's the story of my life

Roxana

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Roxana

January 25, 2013

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One year later and the fights have ceased, we have grown apart but are still friends. I still meet him at Uni and he comes around to help me with my studies, but its sad that we are not that close. I think its obvious because I have a boyfriend.. ah well :/

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Roxana

March 15, 2012

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Last week we got into a big fight and I was saying stuff like you treat me like shit and he was like nooo i care about u and u are special to me so on and so forth.. but his actions prove otherwise. I dont want to lose the strong friendship we once had, of course not.. i just want him to be there for me as he once was

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jesse

March 11, 2012

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oh n btw there is nothing wrong with confronting the guy and asking wats his issue..just pull the card " my friendship with you is very special to me... and i wanna know whats going on" your not going behind your boyfriends back by saying this...

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jesse

March 11, 2012

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woah woah ..no offense but well it sounds to me like hes jealous and maybe still has some unresolved feelings for you...hmm...i would totally just go up to this guy or friend and ask him straight out what the hells his issue ..id throw it in his face and say "you know what-- you were the one who decided to give up on us and now your acting all shitty on me? whats wrong with you ? do you really wanna ruin our friendship too...? or better yet whats left of it??"

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Roxana

March 08, 2012

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Yeah I totally agree with you Jesse.. And my best friend and I spent the whole day fighting today.. He can really take me forgranted at times without realising that I am hurting.. its just so unfair that he thinks he can treat me like shit and then apologise and think that everything will be fine. I still cant accept the fact that it is over but I don't tell him of this, 1. bec I have a boyfriend and I'm happy with him, and 2. bec i don't want to fight with my best friend. I admit that I do have feelings for him but if he keeps up this attitude, he's going to lose me for good. Hopefully things will turn out for the better soon.

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jesse

March 06, 2012

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o crp you just reminded me of bad memories....eeeesh.. i had this thing for my best friends bro and well it ended in pieces ...i mean i always thought of it as a summer fling guess he didnt think so...we always had that bad connection lol.. and its just so awkward every time we see eachother...but dont worry its getting better and im sure that in time these feelings that you have for this guy will where off :)

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Roxana

March 05, 2012

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And trust me never date your best friend.. biggest mistake ever because I am still head over heals in love with him

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