Skyla's Breakup Story in miami - YouBrokeUpHow.com (uBUH)

Skyla

February 09, 2012 @ (miami)

I met him in 7th grade. We were friends, then 8th grade came around, and we got together. We were together for 2 1/2 years when we ended. He cheated on me with another girl. He had hickeys on his neck. I was so...broken. He was my first love, my first everything, and I was so in love with him. People may say that at my age, we still don't know what love is, but, I do. I gave 2 1/2 years of my life and spent it with him. We had so many good times, but also, so many bad. He was always mean to me, calling me names, ignoring me when I was upset, and cheating on me. Hes always cheated on me since day 1. But everytime we broke up, I blamed myself. I never felt good enough for him, and I felt like maybe if I changed the way I was, he'd like me more and he'd start treating me better. But last week, he cheated again. I broke up with him, and it hasn't been easy for me. I love him so much, and I just want to know what I ever did to deserve this, why I was never enough. I want to be loved back, and appreciated. He haws new girlfriend now, and its tearing me apart. I'm so.hurt in all of this, and he doesn't care. I don't know how I'm going to get over this. And I wanna know why I want someone who doesn't want me. Its hard spending that long with someone, and then not having them at all. :/

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Zach

February 14, 2012

Its not that you aren't good enough for him, you can't think like that. You broke up with him, he's not good enough for you, he did all those horrible things to you, why would you want to be with someone who doesn't respect your feelings? It sounds like he is playing you, and even though you may like him a lot, as long as you keep thinking you aren't good enough or you did something wrong, he's going to keep playing you. Steer clear of him, he's bad news, and all you are going to do is keep getting hurt by him. You are young and there are plenty of fish in the sea. Sometimes it can be hard to find them and you may have to go fishing more than once but you'll find the right one eventually and one day I hope to find the right one too.