Shane's Breakup Story in North America - YouBrokeUpHow.com (uBUH)

Shane

December 21, 2011 @ (North America)

Two son's,grandbaby,Big house,cottage,condo in the south,boat,personal watercrafts,atv's,cars,income....Gave it all up for love.
My wife was more like a work partner.Did everything for me and the family. She had very low self esteem and didn't want to do anything socially just with her family.We were intamit twice in 6 years. I had a female friend I use to visit about 16 or 17 years ago strictly platonic we just enjoyed each others company without feeling any pressure. Well we ran in to each other again and a relationship developed this time, I know "shame on me". I fell in love with this woman and we have been together a little over a year.I left my wife and she left her husband. Her two daughters have adjusted extremely well. I love this woman but I’m also heart broken.No one in my previous family has anything to do with me at all not my son's or granddaughter, in-laws, no one. My ex-wife has all the material items, everything including $2,000.00 I deposit in her account every month, we have never been to court or had any outside settlement input. She is still devastated and so are the kids. I’m happy, extremely happy but heartbroken. Sometimes I even feel like I should take my own life just to have the pain and suffering that I have caused other people.
Thanks for a place to vent.
Happy but heartbroken, my sons were my best friends period...I miss them so much.

Comment on this breakup

issssliss

January 09, 2012

Your wife deserved more than that. Did you even really try? Why not some couples therapy? Why not a date night where you two get away from everyone else and can remember why you loved eachother? Im not understanding this. Its people like you who make ppl like me scared of relationships cuz you never know if your partner would find someone one day that they like better than you. Pathetic. I am sorry you lost your children, but you deserved it. Sorry to be so blunt. Thats just how I feel.