John's Breakup Story in Raleigh, NC - YouBrokeUpHow.com (uBUH)

John

February 12, 2011 @ (Raleigh, NC)

Tags: Break, up,

Im 15 and my girlfriend broke up with me because i told her she dint make me happy. I said mean things out of anger and i never meant them. She knows that and i told her id change if she takes me back. But she likes this other guy, but she dint break up with me for him. She wants to know if he likes her, and she said that if he doesnt she'll come crawling back to me. She wants to know if ill take her back if he doesnt like her. I want to, but when i think about them dating it makes me want to tell her no. I just dont know if ill take her back or not. And i need some advice on why i should or shouldnt. It just makes me feel like a back up. I still love her and she still has feelings for me. Shes gona ask him monday and today is saturday. I just need some other peoples perspective on this. Thankyou.

Comment on this breakup

Adriane

February 17, 2011

Honey, never be anyone's second hand rose. It will make you bitter towards her and mad at yourself. Go find someone else.. I've raised 2 boys so I have some experience with this. An ex is an ex for a reason and time never changes those reasons.

sarah

February 17, 2011

This is the dumbest thing i've ever heard...This girl isnt worth waiting for...If you started talking to another girl and was waiting if she liked u or not i dont think the other girl would wait around to see if u come crawling back...have some respect for yoursef. that girl isnt worth it.

katt

February 15, 2011

Umm, you're 15. Don't be hung up over her. Why settle to be with someone who says she wants someone else but if he doesn't like her, she'll come crawling back to you? Also though, you sound confused. You told her she didn't make you happy and surprised she left you. Just be like every other 15 yr old and date someone and "fall in love" with a different person every month. Good luck!

Valley Smoker

February 12, 2011

so i admit that it's been a long time since i was 15 but i don't remember any girls that were worth being a safety net for.IF this girl comes back to you and really does want to get back toether make her grovle a little.don't take her back right away.but then again it's probably a moot point anyway since you told her she didn't make you happy and you acted like a dick.