Confused's Breakup Story in Small town in Texas

Confused

December 25, 2010 @ (Small town in Texas)

will i was dating a guy for three years he was my first love, im so deep in love with him. And he broke up with me a little over a month ago and im so depressed i feel like my world is coming to an end. this brake up happend so fast i wasnt expecting it even though we would always fight but we would always get over it some way some how, but this time he told me he just couldnt go on cause he wasnt happy being together so he broke up with me. it hurt me so much that it was so easy to just give up on us like that after 3 years and after all the stuff he told me. so he kept texting me, telling me he still loves me and wants to stay friends. And when he does text me he expects me to talk to him like if we were still together but i dont i talk to him like i would talk to any other of my friends, and that really bugs him, he wants me to be kissing his a** or something. so two weeks fly by and he text me telling me he hates that i act like i dont love him anymore and dont even tell him hi or even make eye contact with him at school and that he doesnt know if he should stop "trying". which i have no idea what he meant by that i thought he let go of what we had the day he told me it was over. im so confused does he want me back?

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Missliss

December 15, 2011

Basically this exact situation is happening to me and has been going on for the past year. He tells me he still loves me so much and that he misses me, He askes if Im dating anyone and if I am then hell text me every day until I tell him that my BF and I had broken up and he wants nothing to do with me. Hes crazy. I swear. I wish he would stop, it confuses me like it does to you. You dont know if he still wants to be with you or if you should put in an effort. I decided a while ago that he just has low self esteem and wants to hear that I still love and miss him aswell. Words are words, so sometimes I give it to him, because honestly I do still love him, and miss him, but Ive moved on and found someone who is amazing. The guy you are talking about probably has some self image issues, even if he doesnt act like it, some people are better at hiding it than others. I would definately move on, you can find someone better than him if thats what you wish.

Chris

December 26, 2010

I say he is playn with your emotions, i wouldnt go back unless he was begging, sorry to say that, but he sounds like an ass, and 85% of guys are assholes, some change later in life some dont, move on, but dont completly ignor him, say hello, being friends isnt bad, but you 2 arnt togather anymore

Moe Money

December 26, 2010

i think that asshole is playing games with yu nd he is waiting to see what yur next move will be, but i can see yur still in high school so you'll get over him nd theres plenty of guys out there