Marie's Breakup Story in Ca - YouBrokeUpHow.com (uBUH)

Marie

July 14, 2010 @ (Ca)

Tags: Hooked up with someone else while trying to work it out with an ex

My boyfriend and I had been dating for almost a year... Long story short everything had been great between us until shit hit the fan in his life... Things started to get bad between us and we broke up, but continued to see each other, talk, etc on a regular basis. During this he kept telling me that we aren't together, he needs to focus on himself right now, can't give me what I need right now, but loves me and doesn't want to be apart. Well during this I hooked up with an old booty call of mine when my ex and I were fighting. I want to work things out with my ex, but is it worth telling him about the hookup?

Comment on this breakup

Kris

December 05, 2010

If you love him, you would NOT of been ABLE to sleep with anyone else. I KNOW! My GF just broke up with me and I have had the chance to sleep with another girl.. I couldent! I was in her house with her watching a movie.. and she thew herself on me and I rejected her... Even tho I was single.. and was broken up with! I am still in love with my ex and to me, sleeping with another girl is still cheating in my book. Until you are actually OVER the one you care about, sleeping with someone else is just the same as cheating on your partner/yourself.

sped

August 18, 2010

Marie: Your ex is your ex for a good reason -- you aren't right for each other. Do NOT try ot make things better with the ex. The problems you had are still there and won't go away. You will end up fighting as before. Remember how miserable and unhappy you were when you were fighting with the ex -- do you want your whole life to be that way? I hope not. Dump the douche and move on

Ann

July 20, 2010

Sometimes being good friends with your ex complicates things. You might just want to step away and see if you both still feel the same way after a while. He sounds like there are some reservations that he is having that he really needs to examine. You're broken up, the hookup is irrelevant to your ex-boyfriend.

john

July 20, 2010

YOu must question if you really love him. Also if you really want to spend the rest of your life with him. If you did it when he was having a hard time in life what makes you think you won't do it in marriage. Look inside yourself. Marriage is hard and full of ups and downs some worse than others. You obviously know better. If you do really love hima and want to be with him forever then dont tell him. If he is just there to be there to comfort when you feel lonely then he should know.