Carl's Breakup Story in Delhi - YouBrokeUpHow.com (uBUH)

Carl

January 07, 2010 @ (Delhi)

Tags: Family, control, dominating family

I was in love with some girl, when I met a girl who became my friend (very good friends). I broke up with my love just to offer her a chance to be with some one who was better for her than me. She would ignore her but he would wait. I thought of moving out so he could get his place which, he did. My love hated me for leaving but I could live with the thought that atleast she'll be happy all her life without me.

I was coming out of that love and discovered my friend had developed feelings for me. For the first thought I had her by my side in my low time so I accepted her but her sister and I had an ego clash. Her sister always ruled my friend (now my GF) and I opposed it. This took her sister be against me and I certainly could not accept her sister. I took a promise from my GF to not let her sister get involved in our life and in simple words leave her for me. She agreed but kept the contacts with her sister, this reason brought so many fights between us but nothing changed. After marriage till date, many fights and many chances to break up, she still wants to sail in 2 boats.

No breaking contacts at the cost of my happy married life. I realised some times you as a husband is expected to accept all you get but you are unable to....Can't be a doormat and can't keep fighting everyday when the reason is her family. I think of moving out but get blamed. Along the way the fights have made me hear things that haunt me now and I see my feelings for her are not the same anymore.

I regret to have given my LOVE in somebody's hand and sacrificed. 2nd time I was taken for granted. Now I am all broken and just dragging myself with her as we have a child as well.

Can't live with her and can't leave her. Living with her has a cost to pay and leaving her has a cost for my child to pay.

Sometimes life gives you a fruit that looks sweet but its bitter when you bite. I am responsible for my own mistakes and will have to learn to live with the memories of my Fisrt and only love. What is more ironic than this?

Comment on this breakup

SLMVP

January 31, 2010

Why did you leave the one you love. That is so stupid.

Lucy

January 10, 2010

My goodness, this makes no sense.

sped

January 07, 2010

From the text it's clear that English is your 2nd language. So dump the bitch and go back to wherever you are from. Staying together in a shithole marriage is far worse for the child. Don't think you can't leave her. She is betting that you don't have the balls to dump her and is just dumping shit all over you. Grow a pair and hit the road. It's never too late to throw in a bad hand

confused

January 07, 2010

what the hell, mate? It was hard to follow your story but I think I got it. At least you realize you fucked up. And I think staying together for the child does more damage than anything else. You can still be a great dad without suffering at the hands of the mother.