Emily's Breakup Story in Europe - YouBrokeUpHow.com (uBUH)

Emily

December 26, 2015 @ (Europe)

We have been together for a half a year. We are really young,only in 9th grade. You might think we didn't even love each other, but we really did. But just recently he told me he doesn't love me like he used to. It completely broke my heart, I meen it happened on the Christmas month and it made worse. Gosh we have had so many things great memories, we had such a bright future. But my friends say he's no good,cause I have been crying every night for more than a month, I haven't been eating and I am already really skinny, you know this is what love does, he's a great guy, and I completely did not expect that, and I fell in love with all his flaws and I even liked to fight with him, you know it felt like we were a family. The first love is so strong, I'll never forget him, I meen so many firsts, first kiss, first boyfriend, even tho he was more than that to me, he was like my brother, like my best friend.. I can't imagine my self with anyone else, actually I can't imagine my life without him, because he became such a big part of my day to day life. Can this really be over? I meen he was the first to kiss me, he even asked he was like "can I?", and oh god he told me that he loves me, when we didn't see each other for a long time for the first time, he came to my huose with a bunch of roses, he was so nervous, but managed to say that he fell in love with me. And the last time we texted I asked for him to remove the status from facebook, and the photos from Instagram if it's all over, and he said no, and I told him that I'm really heartbroken, and that I don't see myself with anyone else, he said that he doesn't either, but he hasn't texted me since, he just sits on Facebook liking other girls pictures. Please help, I don't know what to do and please tell your opinion if it's over.

Comment on this breakup

MegEgg

January 06, 2016

Ninth grade relationships?! Jesus! Don't even think about falling in love until you're at least 25. I'm almost 30

Mary

December 27, 2015

I know how you feel. I recently had my ex break up with me meanwhile he still tells me he is in love with me and can't see himself with anyone else... meanwhile he is getting with a ton of girls. Boys are stupid and don't like being tied down. Eventually he will realize how much he messed up. I think you should move on though. I know how hard it is.. my ex was literally my best friend. I was with him every single day and we slept together every single night. He was literally my life. But if someone can throw you away that easy.. you deserve better. I know how much it hurts... i was depressed and lost a lot of weight too. You need to distract yourself with family and friends and honestly try to move on and start talking to other guys. It'll take time but you'll definitely start to feel better after a bit. I promise you can get through it if I did!