You Broke Up How?

Rachel

November 07, 2013 @ (USA)

Tags: Worse break up ever

We were always in love since 4th grade.He then transferred to another school.in that moment I was dating someone else.i broke up.he was there to cure me. We texted everyday then one day he asked me out I said then we were always texting babe love u every second.on day he said we need to break up ,sorry.i asked him why .he said because a girl called to a corner and kissed him.i asked him if he liked it or does he like her too. He said he kissed her too and likes her too.my heart apparently broke,I stopped breathing for a minute,I burst out crying.i broke up with him .he said forgive I said don't ever talk to me again.he begged and begged I never forgave him.and still now we miss each other

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Theo

June 01, 2015 @ (Atlanta)

Tags: Awesome

Wasn't really my breakup but I was involved in it. Go back 14 years, my best friend and I were both 16 years of age. He had a girlfriend who was unworldly beautiful, like a model, and let's face it - who wouldn't be attracted to a young Jessica Alba?

One night, we were to a club and we all got a bit tipsy, I ended up slamming my mate more and more drinks and then ended up having sex with his hot girlfriend. He didn't find out at the time, but we kept going at it behind his back - probably about 6 times a week for the rest of the time they were together? They were together about 3 years lol. They broke up because I came clean to my mate and he respected me for that so we remained best friends. I told myself that I wouldn't touch his girl the next time he gets one.

Fast forward back to current time. My best friend recently just got married six months ago and again... his, now, wife looks like Natalie Portman. I mean... who wouldn't want to tap that ass? Anyway, after they returned from their honeymoon, he told me that he hasn't had sex with his wife since the wedding and that they were a little 'dry' (whatever that meant). So I decided to go to talk to her about what was going on, when my mate went to work the next day. BAM! Ended up shagging her on the kitchen table. We would go at it for hours when my mate was at work and we'd do this like three-four times a week.

A couple of weeks later, my mate tells me that they still aren't having sex. So I go back to her and tell her that she has to have sex with him at least once... Next day, my mate comes to me and asks me "How did you do it?! We finally had sex!" So I congratulate him. Then, he complains to me that he had to do it in a rubber and that he shouldn't have to now that he's married.

Last week we were at it again, this time on their couch and after I came in her, she tells me that she's pregnant with my kid. I tell her that she's crazy and it's probably her husbands (I pretty much knew it wasn't his - I probably had more sex with her in a week than he had with her in his entire life...)

Next day, my mate comes to me really happy and says that he's going to be a pappy and not sure how it happened as he's only had sex with her once after the wedding and it was using a rubber. I quickly ensure him that the rubber must have broken and that the kids is his to which he believes LOL!

I'm still banging his wife when he's at work several days a week and she's about to have my kid in three months! I haven't had a relationship with no strings attached as much as this ever! And I just wanted to tell you guys out there how good this is. I'm still best mates with him, I'm having a blast banging his hot wife and she's about to have my kid which my best mate will bring up free of charge!

Jocelyn

December 15, 2009 @ (pittsburgh)

Tags: etcc

My ex and I had dated on and off for five years, and just last month he went out with some friends from high school. I didn't go out partially cuz I wasn't feeling well, and partially cuz my ex-best friend was going to be there. Well, I found out that night from one of my friends that was there that my bf and my ex-best friend fucked around all night long. They had messed around at the bars, the taxi, and then he went to her house. I tried calling him but his phone was off. The next morning he leaves me a voicemail to call him because we needed to talk about something important. I ignored his calls, texts, voicemails, and knocks on the door for two weeks. I was so hurt, and in a depressed angry state of mind, I slept with two guys over that two week period. Then I find out he's taking my ex-best friend to court because she drugged him with ecstasy that night. I'm pretty mixed up and not sure how to feel, I can see how a drug could lower your morals, but he should have known what was going on and knew it was wrong, and I feel terrible cuz I didn't know that before I slept with those guys

Hunter

November 24, 2015 @ (Plainfield, IL)

Tags: Bad breakup funny sad

So I met this girl, let's called her Allison. I hated Allison at first, I though she was annoying. I dated her best friend, her best friends dumped me, I became depressed. Allison was the only person who helped, I fell in love.

A few months later we started dating, we dated for six months before we split a few weeks ago... She told.me I was irritating and much better as a friend... I feel like she just stayed with me to get rid of my depression

Taylor

October 23, 2009 @ (Baltimore)

Tags: You can never be friends

I broke up with my long term boyfriend from high school 2 years into college...we both couldn't make the distance work. We still loved each other and decided we both wanted to be friends. I thought we could handle this in an adult manner. His sister was getting married and he asked me if I wanted to be his date. I figured this wasn't a big deal and of course as a friend wanted to be there for him. Well everything is going well until he decides that he wants to sleep with me. ( I had been talking to a guy at college I wanted to get serious with so this was out of the question) We have a HUGE fight. He gets pissed and leaves me by myself at the reception. He actually left with a fucking bridesmaid he just met that night. I was so pissed I called a friend to come get me (2 hrs away). I waited in the hotel room until my friend arrived. Before I left, I dumped everything in his suitcase in the bath tube and left the water running...we haven't talked since.

Yash

December 22, 2009 @ (india)

Tags: serious, relationship

i was in this relationship for close to two yrs , we both were totally into each other but things changed when she started going to college , she gave me less time but i kept adjusting knowing she was busy , slowly our fights increased but they were not so hard , never lasted more then a day or two , but then one day i was just going through her inbox deleting our chat history( she shared her password with me) and i came across this conversation about this guy in her college with her another friend , when confronted she said it was just for fun thats how girls talk and before we could talk anymore she said she has to go , its been 2months , she has not answered any of my calls after that and never replied to 100's of sms's and e-mails i sent her.........i still wish we were together :(

Layla

November 03, 2018 @ (unites states)

Tags: Bad Breakup

So Im 15 and i was dating the 17 year old that my friend had introduced me to. me and him had talked for a long while about two months and then he finally asked me out but i was nervous saying yes because he had turned into my best friend when no one else was. i eventually had said yes to him . this was the best relationship i have ever had. well one day i decided to go camping with my family and i met this one boy who had talked me into being with him for the night and i did. well i told my boyfriend about it and he cried but he forgave me because i was the only girl he wanted in his life . after that i became depressed and had really bad anxiety and one day i called him and i thought i was telling him i loved him one last time well it didn't work so i had to tell him what i done and he started taking pills and i had to end everything and every once in a while i get these texts from him that he loves me and he cant find no one like me and i know its him because he used to call me "mi amour" and he used it in every text so i knew it was him . now he was my first kiss my first commitment my first relationship goal he was my everything now its over

Cccccc

July 08, 2011 @ (Manitoba)

Tags: Me, he

Read this and tell me if you think that this is right. We where happy together he was happy , I was happy
We were together for almost 5 months and we would always put eachothers feeling first. He mad me so happy, but one night he got really mad , not at me just at life and he sent me a inbox on facebook. Saying that it would be better to be friends and that he didn't love me anymore. This was a day after he told me he loved me 13 times in one day. When we got back to school, he released that he still loved me and made a mistake, so he asked me out. I didn't know what to say so I just said I'll have to think, the day went on and that night he told me that he loved me and would catch a grenade for me and do anything for me but he didn't want to be my boyfriend . 2 days after he asked out my best friend. And it's been at least to months since, I still cry about it .

John L.

July 20, 2010 @ (Orlando)

Tags: 8 year dream

I was with a girl for 7.5 months. When we first met she told me that she was going to try and get back together with her ex.8 years earlier I had begged God to show me the girl I was to marry. I had seen this girl and her dad for 8 years in my dreams and had been looking every day. 2 days before my 23 b-day,I took her out to dinner and it was my first date.We ended up hanging out more and more. FOund out later she was with a guy I knew and was having sex. I am a true Christian and wanted to show her that sex wasn't how you loved someone it was just being with the that mattered most. Her ex had messed up her head. I got drunk for the first time forher and apparently I woke up next morning with no clothes on. I lost my virginity.To me it was the most sacred thing I wanted to give my wife to say this is all that I am and I am giving it to you. We ended up doing it a lot and I thought she would stay with me. She was talking with her ex the whole time and I hated that but was trying to show I cared. He came back 4 two weeks and she had sex with him. I had just given her a 200 dollar pair of earrings saying the night before don't forget about me. She came back and we were together for a few months then she started working at a place full of guys then the there was no contact with her. I was like what the crap. She didnt tell me anything. I had nightmares of me being in the room while she was having sex with a guy I had never seen. Later found out she was seeing a guy from work. And that she had finally broken up with her ex.
I said is there any way that we could start over since she now had a clear head. No. She never once loved me or had feelings for me. They were all transferred from her ex to me. Sorry.
In the end I gave my virginity so she wouldn't go to another guy who would use her for sex,gave her my heart, mind, body and soul. I waited 8 years for this girl and she took everything and said it meant nothing. Now I am afraid to even ask a girl out because I believed in her. One time after sex she was like what is your favorite part. aka on her body. I pointed to her heart. I never wanted sex. I kept telling her it was just holding her hand, being in her arms, and looking into her eyes that made me forget everything. Now I fear she is destroying her future. All I can do is pray

SARAGADA JEEVAN

May 08, 2026 @ (Visakhapatnam)

Tags: #heartbreak, #breakupstory, #relationshipquotes, #sadlove, #emotionalstory, #loveandpain, #regret, #lostlove, #relationshippain, #deepfeelings, #hearttouching, #sadquotes, #painfullove .

HE REALISED HER VALUE AFTER LOSING HER....


Kanna and Rossy met during a phase in life where everything felt beautiful ??
Late-night calls, random bike rides, silly fights — their love felt easy and real.
Rossy always said Kanna was the only person who could make her smile even on her worst days.

But slowly, things started changing.

Kanna loved Rossy deeply, but he never understood how much his behaviour was hurting her ????
Whenever he got angry, he spoke harshly.
Sometimes he became too harsh during arguments and spoke without understanding how deeply his words affected her.
He loved her a lot, but his anger, overthinking, and behaviour slowly started hurting the person who loved him the most ????

Rossy kept adjusting silently ????

When he shouted, she stayed calm.
When he doubted her, she explained patiently.
When he hurt her with words, she cried silently after the calls ended.

Every time she tried to explain her feelings, Kanna would say:

“I am like this only…
“If you really love me, you’ll understand…”

Rossy wasn’t asking for perfection.
She just wanted peace ?????

One night, after another painful argument, Rossy sat looking at their old photos.
And she realised something painful…

She still loved Kanna ??
…but she was slowly losing herself while loving him.

The next day, she called him.

“Kanna… I’m tired.”

He thought it was another normal fight.

But Rossy softly said,

“I stayed because I thought one day you would change.
But now I’m scared that one day I’ll completely lose myself too…” ????

For the first time, Kanna stayed silent.

Rossy continued,

“You’re not a bad person, Kanna…
but your behaviour is hurting me more than your love is healing me.”

His heart sank.

“Rossy please… I’ll change.”

But this time, she had already cried enough to make her decision ????

“I waited for your change while getting hurt every single day…”

There was silence on the call.

The kind of silence that comes when love is still there… but hope is gone.

Before cutting the call, Rossy said one last thing:

“Sometimes love is not enough when peace disappears.”

After she left, Kanna’s world became quiet.

No more good morning texts.
No random voice notes.
No one asking if he ate food or reached home safely.

That’s when Kanna finally understood something painful

Rossy didn’t leave because she stopped loving him…
She left because she started loving herself too ??..????


MORAL OF THE STORY ????:

Sometimes people don’t leave because love is gone…
they leave because the pain becomes heavier than the love ????

Real love is not just about holding someone tightly,
it is also about making them feel safe, understood, respected, and peaceful ?????

They don’t leave because they stopped loving…
they leave because they got tired of crying over the same pain again and again ????