Robert

October 14, 2009 @ (Ohio)

Tags: ohio


This is how we broke up. she says "You can't leave me, or i'll kill myself". Now note: this girl is a drama queen to the core. my reply: "Well, I hope you've enjoyed your ride."


       


 

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Fred

October 14, 2009


Also "don't be a douche when the words "kill myself" are involved...seems to be a gender bias here, as no mention is made of "Don't fucking threaten to kill yourself in a relationship EVER because it's depraved". In fact, you minimized her fault here by saying "well some girls just take things way too seriously". So it's ok because she is a girl, that explains why she would do that?


     


Fred

October 14, 2009


Ah, so your issue is with the means, not the end. Well, I suppose you have a point there. Although I can tell you, I've been in that situation, and there is a point at which talking no longer helps, because she will do and say anything to keep you around (obviously, if she's willing to say/do that). A certain directness is required. In fact, I think she might be more hurt by "That doesn't make me love you" than "fuck off". I mean, at least with Fuck off she has anger, and can probably move on based on "how much of an asshole that guy was".


     


WickedKitty

October 14, 2009


NO I definitely do not think he should've stayed for ever. I think he should have said something like: That doesn't make me love you Sorry. or: don't do shit like that. find somebody else. And just walk away... or whatever. Just don't be a douche when the words: kill myself are involved.


     


Fred

October 14, 2009


"You can't leave me, or I'll kill myself. So there. Now you just have to stay with me forever, or until I tire of you." Are you serious? Granted, a certain amount of tact would have gone a long way here, but even if she was serious, what would you suggest he does? Stay forever?


     


WickedKitty

October 14, 2009


well some girls just take things way too seriously. She could have ACTUALLY done it. Being an idiot isin't going to help.


     


Fred

October 14, 2009


How is OP an asshole? Should he have caved? Clearly this girl was trying to manipulate him in the most disgusting manner possible, if those words ever leave the mouth of a girl you're with, run screaming for the hills.


     


WickedKitty

October 14, 2009


as*hole


     


jen

October 14, 2009


yeah.. ok jerry


     


Jerry

October 14, 2009


just insist on anal every night. She'll leave then.