Paul

December 20, 2011 @ (US)

Tags: army break up


Heres a little backround first; Well I started dating this girl April first, a year ago.. This being my senior year in high school, we did about everything together.. Homecoming, prom, etc.... I gave up so much for this girl. I lost so many friends to just be with this girl. I could honestly say this was my first love, and my longest relationship so far... Since mom ey is tight with my family, I thought the best solution for me to go to college was enlist with the Army..heres where my story begins....
I had to head off to boot August 2nd.. To fort benning, for infantry training, right before I left my family and her went out to dinner and such, really had a nice time.. Everything was perfect between us, gave her a final kiss good bye, and off I went..
So basic started I wrote this girl, every single day for nine Weeks... She wrote me twice, toward thr beginning, everything seemed okay, she said she missed and loved me etc..then she just stopped. I kept writing, and wondering whats going on.. At week 9 we got our 36 hour pass. I call her up and she literally was just like "oh hey" in thr most unenthusiastic voice ever, I was so excited to talk to her, she was all that was on my mind for Weeks... And she didnt even care.... We ended up fighting over it.. I was pretty unhappy about it. I expected a bigger reaction I guess..
I ended up breaking my leg and sent home for con leave, comes to find out shes been seeing another dude, she changed her status to single on fb and starts hittin up all these guys... After all this, I still wanted to try and make it work. She acts like im the bad guy, and I deserve this... I just dont get, after dating for a year and a half, I couldn't even get a letter saying "f you, im done" or anything... She just left me in the cold..I still think about her to this day. I've been miserable since she left me, no girl has made me feel the way she did.


       


 

Comment on this breakup






misssil

January 12, 2012


This is sad. Some people cant do long distance relationships, but at least she couldve told you that she didnt want to do it anymore. what a bitch. If I was recieving a handwritten love letter everyday from my love that was enlisted in the army I wouldnt be able to do what she did to you. And I also cant do long distance relationships. You were definately not the one in fault in this situation. She needs to learn to realize when shes got something amazing right in front of her. Some people have no heart I guess, it just shows that she didnt care for you the way you did for her. Dont give up on love because of one horrible person. Dont stop being the way you are and you will find someone one day that truly makes you as happy as you deserve. You seem like an amazing boyfriend, and you deserve much better than this girl.


     


Jo

December 24, 2011


Yea what the f is up with them making YOU feel bad when they're the ones that fkd u over! Hope u feel better soon paul x


     










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