Charlie's Breakup Story in New Zealand - YouBrokeUpHow.com (uBUH)

Charlie

February 21, 2010 @ (New Zealand)

She was my first love. We were lovers and best friends, it was amazing. We had our moments where there were spats and petty arguments, but we always got over them pretty quickly. About 6 months in we hit a rocky patch where we were constantly fighting and holding grudges longer than we were in spending time together so we called everything to a halt and "took a break" but after being apart for a week and a bit got back together. Things, although still great, were never the same. Our relationship lacked the passion and we were fading to bare friendship. By the end of our 7th month I tried to cling to the scraps of our relationship but she was slipping away and i was constantly having to call, txt and arrange when and where i'd see her. It got to the point where i knew she'd lost interest in me completely and i had nothing i could hold on to. After one of our last "arranged" dates i moved in to kiss her hello and she leaned away. I confronted her about her feelings and she turned around and said that she wanted our "infatuation" to slip into a comfy, close friendship. I agreed, i couldn't force her to feel differently about me. We avoided each other for a week when she started txting me again. I asked how she was, if she was seeing anyone and i got a few stinted replies our conversation dwindled and died. She then txted me a few hours later asking how i'd feel if she was to start seeing someone; i tried to stay nonchalant and told her it was her choice and to do what made her happy and, stupidly, asked if i'd know the person. She replied with one of our mutual acquaintance, of which, i felt a bit put out knowing a few trashy, sleazy stories about him but left it up to her. She then pushed the matter, asking how i'd take it if they were officially dating and i repeated my "whatever makes you happy" but then it struck me and i asked her how long they'd been dating. She replied that she'd hooked up with them days after we'd officially broken up. I was heartbroken. She continued to text me, then kept calling but i couldn't bring myself to answer. It's been a two years and i still refuse to fall into any relationships due to the scars shes inflicted. How long did her relationship with the sleaze last? 4 weeks.

Comment on this breakup

Fred

April 16, 2010

Love stinks (yea yea). There isn't anything in the world you can do to make someone love you. Probably a good choice to blow her off but...get the fuck over it guy.

eunice

March 30, 2010

hey charlie. im a gurl. so when i was 17,i was in a relationship with a guy. it was a give and take relationship. i love him so very much and i believe that he loves me too. so anyway,we dated about 2 years when he suddenly call it quit. the odd thing was we didnt even fight about anything or he didnt show sighs of him not loving me(a week before he dump me,he slept with me n told me to move to town with him and we can have our own lives together. i was 18. so wadever,when he dump me,i was so confuse and he blame everything on me(his parents both are pastors). they cant believe that their son can slep with a gurl. so the parents told me that its my fault that i trusted him and that i seduced him. i felt so hurt and stupid for letting this guy in my life. now im 20,after 1-2years of not talking to me,he suddenly text me saying that he wanted to be my frens and stuff.. wad a dick! i dont know how is my story relevent to yours,but i just felt like telling you after reading your story.i know its hard to move on,but hey,hold your head up high and know that you deserve someone better that someone who treats you like trash.. xx

chico rush

February 27, 2010

the relationship with charlie didn't last 4 weeks sped.the relationship with her new fuck buddy lasted four weeks.....four weeks after she told charlie that she was fucking another guy.i agree he needs to get over it it waa two years ago.it's not like they were together for like ten years and she just dumped him for no reason.she found a new dick.it's not sad it's pathetic.

lll

February 26, 2010

i dont see how its funny. its sad and very realistic

sped

February 22, 2010

Charlie: you are a big pussy and worse than that you are an extremely stupid pussy. The relationship is going into the crapper and you THINK she might be seeing someone else? So you ask? WTF? Is there any reason at all to even think that she'd tell the truth is she was seeing another guy? Turns out, she was seeing someone else. She's been keeping that pussy well fed while you feel sorry for yourself and your blue balls. So she made a complete ass out of you and 2 fucking years later you are still heartbroken over a 4 week relationship. WTF? And you say you can't get over her? When was the last time you even saw your balls, let alone used them? Why don't you have a big bowl of Purina cat chow for dinner to drown your sorrows?