Rachel

February 20, 2010 @ (Missouri)

Tags: Eric


We were together for 3 years and he treated me like a princess, i became a little too controlling, lost some of my confidence, and became a little to clingy, we didnt hang out with our friends like at all which i think was another problem...the only thing that i cant say i cant stand about him..is i feel like he didnt communicate very well to me the way he was feeling. Okay so me and my boyfriend almost broke up about 3 weeks before and he said he felt like he made it clear that I needed to change the way I was too controlling and that he wanted to hang out with his friends more. I guess things started to get bad again when I felt like the only reason he stayed with me was because I got really upset when he almost left me. He didnt ask to hang out with his friends or anything so I figured things were getting back to normal. Then I said something to him about things just not feeling the same and he just jumped all over this, which really upset me. Then a couple of days later he decided that we needed to talk so he sat me down and started to tell me that he just didnt want to be with me. Im not going to lie, I asked him for a chance to change and I told him that being with me for 3 years he couldn't find it in his heart to give it one more go, and he said he just didnt want to try anymore. He was really upset when he did it and even cried and kissed me good bye, he even said if we are meant to be together we will get back together. We didnt talk for 3 days and then we both ended up going to this party, when I was walking out of the bathroom he was walking in and i like tried to talk to him and I could tell he didnt want to talk to me and I ended up realizing he was drunk, we then went outside because i was dying to talk to him and he just kept saying he wanted to go and hang out with his friends. We ended up going back into the party and i got really upset because his friends pushed some girl onto him and she was grinding on him, i yelled at his friends and he ended up coming over and telling me i needed to leave and just stop he finally went outside to talk to me and ended up saying that he was texting another girl to try and get me to go away. I was trying to get his phone so that I could see his phone and if it was true I would leave him alone for good, then his friends came out and like pulled me off of him and we ended up going to my car and he just kept saying that he didnt want to be with me anymore and that he missed me but he was having fun with his friends, we were gonna talk the next day somewhere but he ended up texting me saying that there was no point and that he wasnt going to go. Then when i saw him at school because we have a class together we sort of talked but he still wouldnt budge on the fact that he didnt want to be with me anymore and he said now he knew that we werent meant to be together. Then we didnt talk for a week and it was a 4 day weekend and when i came back to school on tuesday, it had been a week since we had talked, he sat down next to me said hey and asked how my weekend was. I told him and didnt ask him how his was and he got sort of upset that i didnt ask, then he asked if i had been talking to other guys, and i said i was sort of texting someone and i didnt tell him who and he ended up grabbing my phone to see and got mad at who it was. Then that night we had to stay after school for like 3 or 4 hours for newspaper and we talked and things started to get flirty and like fun but he still said he didnt want to be with me but that he did miss me and still loved me. Things turned bad that night whenever we sort of texted becuase i think he felt like it was a mistake. Then the next day at school i thought that things were gonna be the same as the night before but he ended up being mean to me, and i just kept trying to talk to him (big mistake)and then that was it. later that day i found out he got so drunk a couple of nights before that he made out with this really nasty trashy girl. The next day i wouldnt even make eye contact with him and he kept looking at me but i refued to look at him. I found out that he was sort of embarassed for kissing that girl. That night he messaged me on facebook and said "rachel one question?" and i never answered...the next day at school i didnt look at him again and that was it. I found out that he had been talking about me to people and asking questions about me, like he asked this girl in our 4th hour what i was talking about to her. He got so jealous when he found out i was texting someone else, wanted to know if i liked anyone else, and asks people if i hate him... i dont understand, he told me to move on yet he is doing this? Its been 2 days since he tried to talk to me and hasnt tried to talk to me again...I am wondering if he will come back to me...or have i already ruined my chances...i dont know if i should keep doing what i am doing by completely ignoring him or what...


       


 

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GaRy

February 24, 2010


Thanks mate!! not thats a summary


     


sped

February 24, 2010


short version: Both dipshits are in high school. The guy is a fucked up drunk but had the common sense to dump Rachel. Rachel is a possessive, clingy cunt but is too stupid to realize that when he dumped her, that means he doesn't want to see her. She still wants to see him and doesn't know what to do next. I say she should put a gun to her head.


     


GaRy

February 24, 2010


I stopped reading after " we were together for 3 years"- Can someone plz give me the short version!! I sensed this was going to be a very boring one


     


sped

February 22, 2010


Rachel is a perfect example of why guys should not have girlfriends in high school. He wants to hang out with his guy friends and this bitch keeps trying to control his life and own his ass. How many times did he say that he wanted to hang out with his friends? What part of that can you not understand? Every time you see him you try to be his girlfriend again and he keeps saying that he is not interested. What kind of dumb fuck moron are you not to get the point? Guys in high school need to practice their game so that when they meet real girls in college, they know how to get into their panties. Never ever should a guy in high school get committed to a girlfriend. A high school romance will never last, and the time spent with asswipes like Rachel is time not spent getting pussy. NO girlfriends in high school!!! Now, on to the douchebag guy. Almsot every time she sees him, he is drunk. Can you spell loser? No decent girl should even get within 10 feet of some dipshit that's always drunk. But this bitch just cannot leave him alone. And he is a drunken douchebag. How pitiful is she? And she in concerne dthat he might not come back to her? It would be a godsend that this dipshit drinks himself to death so he can't go back to her.


     


valley smoker

February 20, 2010


there's a couple of reason's he's acting like a little jerkoff.one he could be trying to see how much crap you'll take from him and still come back.like if he keeps pushing you away and you come back then he has power over you and he'll use that to his advantage to get you to do things for him( his laundry,lending him money,co-signing on a loan,threesomes)that you ordinarily wouldn't do for anyone else.or he could just be over you who knows.but don't worry you'll be graduating soon going to college and you'll forget all about him after you end up pulling a train for a sorority initiation


     


valley smoker

February 20, 2010


there's a couple of reason's he's acting like a little jerkoff.one he could be trying to see how much crap you'll take from him and still come back.like if he keeps pushing you away and you come back then he has power over you and he'll use that to his advantage to get you to do things for him( his laundry,lending him money,co-signing on a loan,threesomes)that you ordinarily wouldn't do for anyone else.or he could just be over you who knows.but don't worry you'll be graduating soon going to college and you'll forget all about him after you end up pulling a train for a sorority initiation