Confused, And Lost

January 16, 2012 @ (Wv)

Tags: break-up


Well, it's been around six months, since my girlfriend and I had broken up. we had only been going out for three months but it seemed things were going really well for both of us. Some unfortunate things happened, and she broke up with me because I had to move. I ended up not moving because of a death in the family and she told me she didn't want to hurt me anymore, so we didn't get back together. In the past six months, her best friend told me that my ex still had feelings for me. (keep in mind, the three of us are still very close friends.) Then about a month later she said that my ex didn't want a relationship. I still have feelings for her, and have tried to move on, but nothing seems right. I need an idea as to what I'm to do at this point, because she seems to be falling for another guy now, three months after her best friend said that to me. I'm lost, and need help. Anyone?


       


 

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jesse

January 19, 2012


yo stop being the man in the middle.. even if your still close you cant have a personal messenger telling you weather or not shes still into you. ok i dont know how to say this to you but.. no offense im sure your a great guy and all but get over her! because of your still playing monkey in the middle you havnt gotten over her yet.its hard i know and i get that you still have feelings for her but close the door-why not- i mean she closed the door in your face... and the only way your gunna recover from this is to close it too.. dont open yourself to her to be shut down again cuz by the time she realizes what a big mistake she made dumping you--trust me.. you wont be so reluctant to take her back and she wont be worth it anymore. dont subject yourself to her stupidity.grow up.be a man. and show her what she is missing. good luck!


     


Mike Hawke

January 16, 2012


Dude, there is only ONE right thing to do in this situation, SLEEP WITH THE FRIEND!!!! No matter what any broad on here will say to that, if you bone the buddy, the ex will be begging to get you back, Women love the competition and right now you're too needy to hit her MAN BUTTON. Act like an asshole and screw her friend, and she will be back in your bed before the sheets cool!


     


alaric

January 16, 2012


She's your impossible dream & i know this is going to be harsh but you've got to build a new life, just with you. If you always stare at the closed door, you'll miss the open window behind you. I was there, I had to build a new life & now I have a wonderful guy who genuinly cares for me & a life thats great. Hope you find your path