Jess

January 16, 2012 @ (Australia)

Tags: phone, crazy


Me and this guy weren't exactly dating but I had to break up with him anyway. I met a guy and gave him my number. I then accidently left my phone at my friends house. My phone was there a few days. I thought I would just explain it to him, if he called or messaged me. I got my phone back and it happened to be my birthday. There were a bunch of msgs beforehand. These are the text messages that followed.
Him: Did you have some company last night? I cant be with someone who is going to play around. Not having it. So please explain....(separate msg)I thought u were different, obviously I am wrong again.
Me: I left my phone at a mate's house and got it about 12 last night. I didnt think it would have been nice of me to msg u then. But thanks, this is exactly what I wanted to wake up to on my birthday. By the way, my friend told me his dad had cancer thus why things have been hard for me to get my phone.
Him: Ok then just wanted to know. Happy birthday hunny, hope you have a great day and I hope I cans ee u soon xoxo
Me: Why the hell would u assume I had company? Why would u assume the worse of someone u barely know? I'm not your GF. My mother doesnt even speak to me like that. Why dont u explain?
Him: I know your not my gf. Ur friend texted me back off your phone (my friend had told him to stop calling because I didnt have my phone). And he said he couldn't tell me his name. If you want me to go I will.
Me: Why would my friend need to tell you his name? Why would his name matter? If u wanted an explanation you should have asked nicely. If something like this sets u off into insulting me, its really not gonna work out ever.
Him: Ok all the best...(again new message)...Ur a quitter. You'll be a lonely old woman. It sounds like you'll get what you deserve so good luck with someone that'll put up with that...Quitter....So u quit an arguement. lmfao...Its just an excuse so u can flirt with guys tonight on your birthday...classy whose place are you gonna leave your phone at this time. lmfao...get f***ed.


       


 

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Jess

January 20, 2012


I'm all for arguing too! When there is something to argue about at appropriate times. Not when there hasn't even been a scheduled date. His messages beforehand were just as creepy that I probably wouldn't have even scheduled one lol. I hate drama so I said goodbye then didn't keep arguing. Me and my sister were having a good time watching all his messages roll in. Good times lol.


     


jesse

January 20, 2012


um ye ok arguing is good i guess on relationships stuff but note that they werent even in a relationship yet thats where i think you should draw the line. i mean look at it this way he jumped from step 1 in a relationship to step 5 all in one day..relationships arent supposed be like that...your supposed to be all on the same page. get me?


     


misslisss

January 20, 2012


I have to disagree with one thing jesse said... In some situations arguing does make it better. Many psychologists promote "arguing" in relationships. It helps people get over the little things and deal with the big ones. But not when you arnt even dating... this guy was a psycho and it wasnt right how he acted. You were right, he was wrong. He has jealousy issues he should get over. What I think is funny is how some people would just drop something like that, the convo you two were having that is. He accused you of sleeping around, told you he wouldnt have it. Then once you said you wernt he went into mushy lovey mode all of a sudden. lol Just the way he changed his mood so quickly. People are funny like that.


     


jesse

January 19, 2012


holy crp this is kinda funny.what the hell was he thinkin how do guys think arguing is going to make things better..im sorry honey but he's a dush. i can already tell what kind of a guy he is..he's the type that doesnt want you to leave his sight, he'll go everywhere with you so that you wont cheat, he'll look at all your texts, and when he's done with you he'll make it seem like it was your fault in public and then some.. your lucky it stoped now cuz it could have gone way worse.. trust me i had a guy like that once lol it was a mess but now that i look back it was a relationship that humored me lol.. so cootose for you!