Confused, And Lost

January 16, 2012 @ (Wv)

Tags: break-up


Well, it's been around six months, since my girlfriend and I had broken up. we had only been going out for three months but it seemed things were going really well for both of us. Some unfortunate things happened, and she broke up with me because I had to move. I ended up not moving because of a death in the family and she told me she didn't want to hurt me anymore, so we didn't get back together. In the past six months, her best friend told me that my ex still had feelings for me. (keep in mind, the three of us are still very close friends.) Then about a month later she said that my ex didn't want a relationship. I still have feelings for her, and have tried to move on, but nothing seems right. I need an idea as to what I'm to do at this point, because she seems to be falling for another guy now, three months after her best friend said that to me. I'm lost, and need help. Anyone?


       


 

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rae

February 14, 2012


lol this crack up...but they are both right


     


jesse

January 27, 2012


is alaric a girls name or boys name..


     


Alaric

January 27, 2012


Whoa whoa there, I bet he has some laughs because of you 2 now, I think it takes great courage for a guy to admit to getting hurt. It can be hard starting over but we all have to. Maybe his next gf will stay & he'll be happy. Quit sending negative vibes to him


     


missliss

January 27, 2012


Pathetic.


     


jesse

January 26, 2012


alot more than what you got going on.. oh and plz tell your fiance i had a lovely time with him..he was quite delicious


     


missliss

January 26, 2012


An ugly fag? Oh sorry **uglyfag** haha. Pathetic. What are you 14? I made as big of a deal out of the pussy thing as it shouldve been. You just had to come along and point it out. Im pretty sure he got it when he read it the first time, not needing to hear you repeat it. You are an idiot. Maybe you should stop sucking cock for a living and take a psychology course or two if you insist on giving people advice on their lives. Maybe any schooling would help you out... You should probably start off where you ended... What was that grade 9? Ps. I have many friends,a fiance and a degree... What do you have??


     


jesse

January 25, 2012


hmm.. no well i also got that ur an uglyfag who probably doesnt have any friends on * or *- reverse psychology bitch.oh plz.sue me for that too.


     


missliss

January 23, 2012


WOW. THAT is all you got out of that? What are you even doing here? This isnt Myspace or Facebook. Find some friends to comment on.


     


jesse

January 20, 2012


haha you called him a pussy...oh and mike your a moron lol


     


missliss

January 20, 2012


jesse is right on the monkey in the middle thing. The whole keeping tabs I find kinda creepy... no offence. It is probably hard, she broke up with you right as a family member passed away, you might be thinking your more upset about losing her than you really are, because really you are at the same time mourning the loss of a family member. You need to destinguish between the two I think. Also, I really dont think you should sleep with the best friend unless you like her and think she likes you aswell, no girl wants to have another friends seconds, and just cuz you guys' friend slep with you doesnt mean she will come running back to you... If the best friend sleeps with you, your ex will think she is better cuz she got you first. The GUY at the bottom probably has no idea what he is talking about. I seriously doubt that this has worked for him or anyone else he has known and if it has then both of those girls had such low self esteem I doubt they are still together if it did work... BASICALLY I also think you should just move on and forget your ex, SIX months! really? Get yourself together man. Live your life. Find something that interests you other than your ex and focus on it. Try new things, put yourself out there, we only live once, there will be other girls. I PROMISE. Try not to think about it and one day, when your out living your life youll meet a girl who really makes you happy, dont be a pussy and go for it.. You only ive once. Good luck